I have been separated from my husband ( verbally abusdive and physically threatening ) for almost 3 months. Final paperwork is pending, and I have recently reconnected with an old friend from my college days, and I am interested in exploring the possibilities. Is it wrong to move ahead? No big rush, nothing too serious, but I feel like I want to go, see, do....after 11 years of trouble...is it ok? Or should I wait until things are final?
2006-06-14 16:02:05 · 13 answers · asked by B. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My fiance started dating me before his divorce was final (way, WAY before - almost a year before), and here we are, 5 years later. I certainly wouldn't pass up an opportunity to find happiness just because of a little slip of paper. If you've seperated from your ex in your mind and heart, you don't need a piece of paper to tell you you're over him and ready to date again.
2006-06-14 17:26:33 · answer #1 · answered by CrazyOphelia 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If u feel u should wait then wait u shouldnt have to be rushed. If this guiy from college really does want to be with u he will wait for u no matter what the case may be. But if u want to move on before u know for sure if anything is final then go for it. This is ur decision. The choice is up to u!
2006-06-14 16:13:40 · answer #2 · answered by Sccrchck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems to be fine with all the famous folks in Hollywood so why not you! Look at Brad and Angelina...Brad's divorce was still in the works and Angelina was already pregnant.
However, with what you said about your soon to be ex husband, if you think you might do something to you or your hopefully soon to be boyfriend, I would date but keep it under wraps until things calm down.
2006-06-14 16:10:53 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, finally feel some freedom after all the abuse and suffering. it's perfectly fine to date, but i agree with LadyHewitt...no sex or making out!! since the divorce papers are in their final stages, i'm sure you've had enough time to figure out if divorce is what u really want. so i say by all means go out with your college friend. it's your husband's loss.
2006-06-14 16:13:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be nice to go out to eat are a movie sex dont be in a rush it would only be re bound and want mean as much take it slow but do enjoy the freedom you go girl let you hair down long time comming good luck and god bless
2006-06-14 16:19:35 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would definitely wait until everything in your divorce is finial. It sounds like your ex was terrible and you will feel much better about yourself if you just wait..then no one can say you ever cheated.
Good Luck!
2006-06-14 16:19:09 · answer #6 · answered by buterflyfeather 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it!! You deserve to be happy. As I see it, your marriage was over as soon as you filed. Enjoy your new life.
2006-06-14 16:38:54 · answer #7 · answered by peep604 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. What are you waiting for? Enjoy your life.
2006-06-14 17:13:38 · answer #8 · answered by Danny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If children are involved wait. If not it is up to you what you think is best.
2006-06-14 16:41:42 · answer #9 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have religious beliefs that frown upon it, follow your heart.
2006-06-14 16:20:54 · answer #10 · answered by COLLEEN K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋