my boyfriend and i have been going out for a year and a half now&&im 15&&hes 16 our families just reciently moved closer to each other because they have become good friends through him&i..but i told him we should wait when he 1st asked because i felt we were to young. but not i feel like we might be ready but what should i tell him. i mean weve talked about it before we would use protetction and everything but we are 15&&16 idk how wed get around it. i mean our hormones have been like going crazy laterly and we both are ready to do it and all im just not sure how to get around out parents HELPP!
2006-06-14 15:58:15 · 11 answers · asked by miss socca♥socca 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
This is the best advice that you will get: I am 21 years old, I had my first child at 15 and the best advice that anyone could give you is to wait. I completely understand that you really want to do it, I know exactly how you feel. But, even if you are safe about it, there's still risk of diseases and pregnancy. I got pregnant the first time I had sex- with a condom.
Besides, if you don't know how to tell your boyfriend that you're ready, then you probably aren't. And, I know this sounds typical, but if he really cares about you then he will respect your wishes.
I realy am an expert at this, so if you need more advice or just want to talk about anything, you can e-mail me: sarahfdavis06@yahoo.com
2006-06-14 16:26:18 · answer #1 · answered by sarahfdavis06 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
One I think that is a very young age to have sex. And you yourself said "I feel like we might be ready" Might isn't a 100%. If you're having second thoughts of whether or not you should have sex with him don't do it, you never want to regret something that you do. Plus not once did you say the word sex on here so that also shows a little immaturity. I don't mean to be mean or anything but I'm just telling it like it is. Wait a couple of years until you're older and you understand a little more about life. Then if you decide that you are ready and this is somebody that you want to spend the rest of your life with then you will know that you are ready. But for now just take it slow if he loves you he'll still be around when you're older.
2006-06-14 16:45:59 · answer #2 · answered by CPSweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i mean when i was 14 i fell in love with my boyfriend now who was then 17 and i was so scared and i waited for a lil bit then my hormones got the best of me and i went through with it i think the only way to get around it is by not letting your hormones get the best of you ... try not thinking about it but if you are wanting to do it then first make sure that he loves you or yall really care for each other ... because sex will change a relationship mabey in a good way or sometimes in a bad it depends on how yall feel about each other .... but good luck and try to not get all upset about all of this you will be fine
2006-06-15 01:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by shawnghettogirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at what you said. "our hormones have been going crazy" I did not see that you mentioned love or marriage once. Wait!!! You are still not old enough emotionally--only physically. Instead, find more group activities, do things together with your families. Do not let yourselves in a situation where you are alone together. Protection is not fool proof. Tell your parents what you are feeling. If that idea "freaks you out", would you rather tell your parents you are pregnant?
2006-06-14 16:12:05 · answer #4 · answered by wbecca52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot let your hormones overrun you, you should wait until you are older so you can get married if you still love him and then thats the time you can do it.
good luck.
2006-06-14 21:22:07 · answer #5 · answered by john 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it. Wait until you grow up.
2006-06-14 16:25:16 · answer #6 · answered by cheeky chic 379 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could masterbate, it would take alot of the tension away.
2006-06-14 16:03:46 · answer #7 · answered by KLAS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you kids need... oh forget it... You kids and your parents need to "chill" out.
2006-06-14 16:17:19 · answer #8 · answered by IGOTDAGIFT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful but go for it, you only live once!
2006-06-14 16:19:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are other sexual activities you can do besides sex.
2006-06-14 16:34:56 · answer #10 · answered by Joey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋