Why is life like this?

Question

Death must be easy cause life is hard leaving us emotionally physically and mentally scarred.

Answer 1

the harder it is, the stronger you are.
it's hard because you are on the same planet with billions of other people who's lives are just as important, and countless other things that you effect, so there will always be struggle in trying to reach accord or compromise. Don't see it as less for you, see it as you getting to participate in this existence with everyone else and allowing them to have the same chances as you. Which means you get to experience some of them, too. We must share, or we will tear each other apart trying to get exactly what we want.

Answer 2

I guess I am a romantic. But wouldn't it be awsome if death was like this poem I copied from some web site.


When Tomorrow Starts Without Me

When tomorrow starts without me,
And I'm not there to see;
If the sun should rise and find your eyes
All filled with tears for me;
I wish so much you wouldn't cry
The way you did today,
While thinking of the many things,
We didn't get to say.
I know how much you love me,
As much as I love you,
And each time that you think of me,
I know you'll miss me too;
But when tomorrow starts without me,
Please try to understand,
That an angel came and called my name,
And took me by the hand,
And said my place was ready,
In heaven far above,
And that I'd have to leave behind
All those I dearly love.
But as I turned to walk away,
A tear fell from my eye,
For all my life, I'd always thought,
I didn't want to die.
I had so much to live for,
So much yet to do,
It seemed almost impossible,
That I was leaving you.
I thought of all the yesterdays,
The good ones and the bad,
I thought of all the love we shared,
And all the fun we had.
If I could relive yesterday,
Just even for awhile,
I'd say goodbye and kiss you
And maybe see you smile.
But then I fully realized,
That this could never be,
For emptiness and memories,
Would take the place of me.
And when I thought of worldly things,
I might miss come tomorrow,
I thought of you, and when I did,
My heart was filled with sorrow.
But when I walked through heaven's gates,
I felt so much at home.
When God looked down and smiled at me,
From His great golden throne,
He said "This is eternity,
And all I've promised you."
Today for life on earth is past,
But here it starts anew.
I promise no tomorrow,
But today will always last,
And since each day's the same day
There's no longing for the past.
But you have been so faithful,
So trusting and so true.
Thought there were times you did some things,
You knew you shouldn't do.
But you have been forgiven
And now at last you're free.
So won't you take my hand
And share my life with me?
So when tomorrow starts without me,
Don't think we're far apart,
For every time you think of me,
I'm right here, in your heart.

Answer 3

"Death comes to me today, like going into the garden after an illness..."

I don't recall the poet, which I'm sure I'm not quoting correctly, but I think you get the idea.

Death can be a welcome thought for those in pain, but life isn't always that hard. Many find, through discipline, through religion, through taking control of their lives, that life is generally good, and worth living.

Peace to you!

Answer 4

I always say to myself after waking up in the morning, "I can overcome anything!!" I say it over and over again. That creates a positive energy, in me and around me. There's a Chinese proverb
about this: "There has never been, nor will there ever be, a life free from problems. It is not the presence of problems but how we tackle them that determines the quality of our lives."

So ... never give up life my friend! If you think your life is hard, just think the people in Darfur, people in Somalia, people in Iraq, Afghanistan, people who lost their homes because of natural disasters. Think of those people who are less fortunate than you, then you will think how precious your life is.

Answer 5

life is what you make it, the sad thing is is that many people make life out to be the way you described it, so hence that's just the way it is, change your thinking and maybe it will change life!

Answer 6

Life is life, and the way you experience is your choice.

Don't be scared.

Things are not what you are told they are, and you can chose what to think about anything.

Answer 7

if life was easy you would take the other things for granted

Answer 8

as Voltaire said when he was told that life was hard..."Compared to what?"