2006-06-14 15:51:42 · 27 answers · asked by Jazzy Faye 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When you are having thoughts that make you ask "is this marriage over?"
Seriously, it's over when neither of you can remember the good times. When was the last time you had fun together? Do you remember the specifics?
Do you remember the good times when you were dating? Specific things?
2006-06-14 17:00:02 · answer #1 · answered by Erick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Top Ten Signs That Your Relationship Is Heading For A Break-Up
10. Wakes up, rolls over and says, "Damn, you're still here?"
9. She's just hired a pool boy...you don't have a pool
8. You call her "Honey," she calls you "Numb Nuts"
7. You overhear your wife on the phone saying,, "How much to kill my husband?"
6. You come home to find her handling the UPS guy's package
5. You've started sleeping in separate beds, in separate houses, in separate time zones
4. You're so unhappy together that the only thing that cheers you up is seeing the hilarious new movie "The Break-Up," now playing at a theater near you
3. You look back at the drunken, bottle-throwing fights as "the good times"
2. At your backyard barbecue she refers to your best friend as "Lover"......I mean "Larry"
1. Keeps asking, "Why can't you be more like Vince Vaughn?"
2006-06-14 23:05:29 · answer #2 · answered by o_r_y_g_u_n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mostly when you die. Then its definitely over. As long as there is life there is hope.
22 years and holding. About 15 good years. The rest, just hanging on. Doing better now than in about 6 years.
You gotta keep doing the small things.
Check out source below. May help.
2006-06-14 23:01:43 · answer #3 · answered by NYman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think it might be over, you should have a serious conversation with your partner. Don't waste time wondering...life is short and happiness is precious. You never know what the other is thinking until you ask. Good luck
2006-06-14 23:04:46 · answer #4 · answered by B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When there is no romance left. When you are both just in it for the kids and are trying to keep the marriage alive but........
When the love in either of your hearts has left
2006-06-14 22:55:22 · answer #5 · answered by Neilman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you find your old lady in bed with three of your best buddies or find your old Man in bed with your mom, those could be two indicators things might not be working out between you?
2006-06-24 15:29:29 · answer #6 · answered by The Burro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know when its over when you dont want to be there every day. Not one of those things where you are angry but you dont want to put the efforts in to make it go.
2006-06-14 22:56:53 · answer #7 · answered by boomerang3que 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you have to ask other when you know if its over.
when your both sad, hurt, drained, tired, bored,....
when you have tried over and over to bring the joy back into it and can't. when you look each other in the eyes and see hurt, emptyness, theres no mistaking the feeling of loss of love!
2006-06-14 22:59:34 · answer #8 · answered by SHE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe me i have been married 3 times and you know when its over, when you cant stand to be in the same room, and everything about him makes you cringe.
2006-06-14 23:52:16 · answer #9 · answered by earthygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is over when he stops calling you about when he is cooming home, it is over if he hits you, its over if he cheats on you, it is over if he doesnt account for the money he spends, it is over if he doesnt take care of you, it is over if he doesnt want to spent time with you,if he wants to habg out with his friends all the time, if he doesnt have time for you or the kids, if he works late, if he abuses you, those are ll signs that it is over.good luck.
2006-06-14 23:32:21 · answer #10 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋