i got my crush on him november of our junior yr, we became friends in feb, and by the summer we were pretty close... then our senior year we became really really close and now hes my best friend! the friendship is what really matters to me, hence the reason i never told him how i felt b4. then one day he told me that he used to like me and i told him i used to like him.i felt really crappy for lying so i told him the truth bout how i felt- that i still like him. but he has a gf now. he said that he was glad i told him and all that, and i was glad i told him (im really shy so to do something like that is pretty impressive for me). but the other night i flipped out on him bc its like we hadnt been able to have a conversation since... he told me everything is fine, nothing changed, nothings weird, were still what weve always been, to just be myself around him like id always been... but something just dont seem right to me... am i just paranoid? what do you think i should do?!
2006-06-14 15:34:54 · 20 answers · asked by mom-to-be09 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Still act like friends and let things develop from there.
2006-06-14 15:38:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well- you're jsut gonna have to deal with the fact that things ARE going to be different now whether he wants to admit it or not. There will probably be some sort of... akwardness between you two for a while. The best thing you can do now is to act normal- even if he is acting strange. Hopefully with time your relationship will get back to what it used to be. For now, just give him some space. He'll act normal again eventually.
2006-06-24 12:21:57 · answer #2 · answered by crazyrandom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's very fine, its part of being teen. Actually, I also experienced that but later on my feeling had flown. I don't think what happened but I have realized that it is just the so called - INFATUATION, but don't think that I am contradicting you. Regarding the love, if there still the feelings for him let that love be just the love of a FRIEND. I know its kinda hard and hurtful but I think if he already have a gf, you were just meant as BESTFRIENDS,
But atleast, be thankful because he even appreciated your feelings with him.
I think you better stay as BESTofFRIENDS, because atleast if ups and downs will come the relationship that you had can be managed still unlike with steady relationships, it is very hard to forgive even little mistakes....
And atleast, you have your bestfriend even through thick and thin.
I hope later you will see the one who is really meant for you.
2006-06-27 23:05:06 · answer #3 · answered by ~~cLaRizZe~~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah things ARE weird- for you. You feel different and he may as well. Guys will never tell you that though. He's going to get past it and you aren't. You are going to always want to know "what now" and " can I say that to him" and " Can we still play fight".
You have to confront him about the questions calmly and see what he thinks. but don't expect him to be able to verbalize all that he feels and is ok with. Ask him if you two should give it a try-- the best gurlfriend is one that you are already comfy with...
Oh but don't forget to remain his bestfriend
2006-06-28 09:30:33 · answer #4 · answered by Twinkles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay Friends... Later in time things might turn around who knows. I sort of went throught the same thing lol.. My Best Friends sister liked me for 3 years and I was already goin with someone to find out my Best Friend liked my Girlfriend so a year late we jsut said heck with it and we. Traded I took his sister and gave him my Ex.girlfriend were still friends 12 years later and all he still has hr i still have his sister lol...
2006-06-28 10:08:38 · answer #5 · answered by Michael B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things are bound to feel akward especially since he has a girlfriend, and you being his bestfriend, he definitely wouldn't want to hurt. So just accept things as they come. Keeping hm as a bestfriend is way better than getting him as a boyfriend and probably ending up spoiling your friendship if things don't work out.
2006-06-26 09:15:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be honest about your feeling for or not for him, being shy is no excuse. Your feelings seem to reflect your writing, confusing.I'm not sure if you still like him, or if you ever really did?Communication is difficult at best, so being "honest" makes communication not only easier and better, but worth the effort.
2006-06-28 13:39:59 · answer #7 · answered by sugar-n-spice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well all you can really do is give it some time. And if that doesn't work try and talk to him about how you feel everything is different to you and how you haven't had a real conversation in so long,
2006-06-26 09:31:39 · answer #8 · answered by Sky S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have diverse disease in my relations so if it wasn't for my acquaintances, i'd not also be able to speak about my thoughts. in case you concentration on sturdy acquaintances your total existence you'll not be sorry for it. That and a courting with Jehovah the Almighty author of the Universe. :~)
2016-10-30 22:16:29 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didnt you just post a question about having sex and now you like another boy, you dont mess around do you???
2006-06-27 11:04:13 · answer #10 · answered by italianprincess_fl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋