should i tell them that im bi they are very religious and i think they will hate me
can some one help me
i love boys and girls
help me plz
2006-06-14 15:22:24 · 15 answers · asked by venezolana2008 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
If they are so religious they should not hate anyone ~ especially their own daughter! That's completely hypocritical.
You have to be yourself and they have to accept the person you are not who they want you to be.
Good luck hun!
2006-06-14 15:26:27 · answer #1 · answered by Queen D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think people need to be more private about thier sexual choices in general... nothing against you, but really do they NEED to know this choice of yours. You obviously are not ready to settle down because a bi person cannot be committed to one person. If you love a man then you can't be with a girl and if you love a girl you can't be with a man. Only Monogamy works....
2006-06-14 22:52:13 · answer #2 · answered by Quarter Piece 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well now tuff question..loving someone of the opposit sex is natural.. but loveing someone of the same sex is a terrible sin...being raised in a religious home i'm sure you already know this... but you may want to sit down with your Pastor, Priest, Rabi..etc. and explain how you feel... If not then sit down with your parents,, expain to them... Parents can be more understanding than what kids give them credit for......
2006-06-14 22:36:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its up to u. U wont be able to keep it locked inside of u forever. So u might as well do it now cause u eventually eill have 2
2006-06-15 00:01:11 · answer #4 · answered by Sccrchck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell them. Its not right to hold secrets from your family. If they dont want to accept you after that then its their loss. They're your parents and they should love you no matter what.
2006-06-15 01:29:09 · answer #5 · answered by Laurie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly are BI how can you not tell them.
2006-06-15 19:05:16 · answer #6 · answered by Trish H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooooooohhh i know how u feel well what i did was tell them i needed to tell them something that i knew they wouldnt agree with buti had to let them know and so i told them and yes they got mad but they were glad that i told them but they are so against it but hey at least they know
2006-06-14 23:07:38 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first decide on what u want cuz in the bible it says be fruitful and "multiply" and u cant have kids wit a girl dont let the devil breal u down gurl!!!stay strong.
2006-06-14 22:34:05 · answer #8 · answered by rebbecca1505 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think stuff like that is best kept to urself.
Your parents dnt need to know wot goes on bhind closed doors.. u wouldnt wanna know about them rite...
2006-06-14 22:29:58 · answer #9 · answered by samchic86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should tell your parents. They will find out eventually.
2006-06-14 22:26:00 · answer #10 · answered by blessedtexasmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋