i'm in a relationship that I've been in for almost 6 years and I'm in a relationship i've been in for 9 months with someone else...I think he is my soul mate...what are the odds ...will it work?
2006-06-14 15:18:28 · 13 answers · asked by JeNe 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Follow your heart, but, you really should have been honest with both men, so you dont hurt anyone.
If you care about either of them you will be honest with them both, dont take it to Jerry Springer, but tell the one you have been with longer that you are confused about things, and you need to figure your head out.
Le tthe other one know that you are thinking about him in this way... see where his head is.. Does he think like my father and think.... its better to be with a taken woman, because you can take them home to their other half when your done with them.
Find out where thier heads are befor you hurt someone and even yourself.
2006-06-14 15:25:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The odds are it won't. Because you might be just doing it because it's a thrill but once thats gone so is the flame. My question to you is how do you know once you get in this relationship you won't cheat again? My next question is does your soul mate know? If he does maybe the next time he will cheat. Remember, Charma is a funny thing.
Good luck and peace out....
2006-06-14 22:23:54 · answer #2 · answered by Antonio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did- with my current fiance and we are going on 1 year so far. I knew he was my soul mate and my husband and I got a divorce and it was the best decision I ever made.
2006-06-14 22:21:27 · answer #3 · answered by brandijolove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and what Ive found is that if a relationship begins with deception, a lack of trust will always be there. After all, if you already know your partner will cheat, can you really trust them?
2006-06-14 22:23:02 · answer #4 · answered by clive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, it may work, let me tell you my story. I didnt cheat.
I knew my boyfriend 6 and half years ago, but he had a girlfriend. To make long story short, he chose me, (after 3 months on cheating), and we've been happy ever since.
But, it's not the same on every case, it worked for me, but you should get a time off to clarify your feelings. (We did that).
Good luck. and you shouldnt cheat for so long.
2006-06-14 22:25:05 · answer #5 · answered by Lavender Pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've cheated and left some one for the other person who i believed was my soulmate and i regret that **** ever since. what you created with the guy for six years, that is a long time for one, think about what you are doing. don't end up regretful like me.
2006-06-14 22:21:48 · answer #6 · answered by fugi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it could work I personally have not done it but my fiance of 3 yrs was married when we got together and now he's divorced and we're still going strong.
2006-06-14 22:22:33 · answer #7 · answered by hottie4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tried it, the new guy always thought I'd cheat on him, even though I tried to explain that it was a different circumstance for us, and I wouldn't do it to him.
2006-06-14 22:22:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! i left my kids dad for my bus boy at work. we've been married now for 6 years and he's awsome.(my husband that is) it can work if he really is your soul mate. i found mine.
2006-06-14 22:26:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very hard to tell
2006-06-14 22:20:50 · answer #10 · answered by adkfoaiefnafedw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋