one of my friends that i have known sense forever is hanging w/ the goths at my school and is into drugs and someone has already spread around the school that some guy she likes fingered her and that she started the rumor which is not true! i really love her shes like a sister but i dont want to get into that croud what do i do?
2006-06-14 14:58:21 · 10 answers · asked by Moma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her you are concerned. Maybe it is all rumor.
2006-06-14 15:02:34 · answer #1 · answered by doc_is 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get her away form this guy, QUICK. Hearts are blind when it comes to infatuation. Wake her up with you and a couple of close friends, like an intervention. If that goes nowhere, tell her parents. Pot is a gateway drug that can have Disastrous effects on the rest of her life. As for the rumor, inject healthy amounts of the truth about who your friend really is. That should be a great start.
2006-06-14 15:04:43 · answer #2 · answered by ambmedic2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moma, it is hard to get someone away from friends they want to hang with. I would say just pray for her and hope she comes to her senses. You could try talking to her and tell her that you really care about her and tell her straight up what you think. That is all you can do unless you want to snitch and talk to her parents... Maybe they can help her.
2006-06-14 15:02:45 · answer #3 · answered by mysticmoonprincess01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get them off it. If they need something to replace it then get them on gum or sumthing. It can damage your bady pretty bad. TRUST ME IV"E SEEN IT BEFORE. You can also give them a walk through about how bad it is for you they might be so scared that they dont want it anymore. But that might be a problem if their body is already accustomed to it.
2006-06-14 15:05:08 · answer #4 · answered by lengleng 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel and if she does'nt listen let her find the hard way, evently things will turn out right at the end and your friend will realize she should of listened to you in the first place.
2006-06-14 15:06:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to her when shes not with them.. tell her your worried about her and ask her if something is up. dont push her too much as she may try to drive you away. smoking pot is not really that big a deal these days, maybe she thinks everything she is doing is okay, let her know it isnt and that you care about her...
2006-06-14 15:02:00 · answer #6 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her what you just wrote. She might turn away and hate you for it, or she will re evaluate her "crowd" and realize that your right. Other than that you can't do anything. Sorry.
2006-06-14 15:03:08 · answer #7 · answered by tricksy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well , you dont have to hang out with that crowd. maybe start hanging out with her more, but dont tell her not to hang out with them. you cant change who she hangs out with, and by telling her that she shouldnt, it'll make her want to more. just let time pass. i mean, one of my friends smokes and does things he shouldnt , but im still his friend and i still trust him.
2006-06-14 15:02:49 · answer #8 · answered by IDNTGIVASHT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL IT SEEMS AS IF YOU HAVE OUT GROWN YOUR FRIEND THEY ARE NOT SMART ENOUGH TO NOT DO DRUGS THAN ITS TIME YOU GET A NEW BEST FRIEND.... BUT ONLY IF THEY REFUSE TO STOP DOING IT ALTOGETHER.... BE SMART AND REMEMBER THIS.. FRIENDS DO NOT HURT FRIENDS ...GOOD LUCK
2006-06-14 15:08:03 · answer #9 · answered by rawdawgsgo_hard2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do drugs...try to encourage your friendnot to either....tell law enforcement if you know about people actually posessing drugs
2006-06-14 15:01:24 · answer #10 · answered by stone cold 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋