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Question

Why when a girl gets some action she is called a whore, but yet a guy can get the same and its known as a score...??? I don't understand... Whats the difference?

Answer 1

What is good for the goose is good for the gander!
What that means - well, just have a good time.
Don't go out with every guy you meet. Be selective and
discrete. Don't tell "ALL" to your girlfriends. They
will spread word and your reputation is mud.
Same with the boys - they like to brag to they friends.
So you see - it is all a little game. The guys collect
trophies and the gals get called whores.
It all depends on how you play the game.
Females will call you a whore because their are jealous,
guys will call you a whore because they think you are "easy"

Answer 2

I understand, and i agree mostly, although it isnt always the case! Its like, on TV when Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt got together- Jennifer Aniston was looked upon as frigid, an old 30 something who had lost her "touch" and had failed the marriage as she "wouldnt have brads children". Angelina jolie was called a whore, and a home wrecker for apparantly splitting them up.

Whereas Brad Pitt on the other hand...seemed to be involved in a tug of war between them both and didnt get judged at all, because of it. It takes two to tango and life isnt very fair!! :)

I think that perhaps there are still some old fashioned views about what is acceptable for women in sexual "encounters" (lets say ;) ! ) and what is acceptable for men! They do tend to differ somewhat i agree! However over the past 20 years or so, societies views on sex are much more open and honest now than they were years ago! There is alwasy going to be a small amount of sexism here and there tho!

Personally, i think that the same should go for both-or if it pleases everyone, men and women should be called whores *grin*

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Answer 3

There is no difference if a man or woman has sexual relations with someone. the problem lies in the fact people have a stereotype of what is acceptable for males and females.I think it is also a matter of perception.The woman gets the "bad reputation, is expected to protect herself from unplanned pregnancy and is scorned if she even thinks of an abortion. The male can go around like a out of control rabbit and do the dastardly deed with multple partners and almost reaches hero status amongst his peers. It is pathetic that equality of the sexes hasn't reached this area. I am not really for multiple sexual partners but I just dislike double standards.

Answer 4

See. you really need to fully understand the male sexual response. All men have multiple orgasms. The first one occurs in bed with his girlfriend. The second one happens when he tells his friends about it.

The truth is that there are probably the same number of boy whores and girl whores. Girls just don't kiss and tell.

Answer 5

grisgris100 is right. It's a man's world. We are supposed to cater to their needs, but when we want someone to cater to ours we're freaks. It's a double standard that's been around since man came to be. I think it's because we give birth. I mean, if we got around like guys did, we'd get pregnant and have no idea who the father is. We would feel guilt and shame about that, But since guys can't carry children, they really don't worry about having that problem.

Answer 6

theres no difference to me but in some peoples eyes the female body is supposed to be kept kinda untouched i guess but i totally hate that aspect

Answer 7

no one should be calling anyone names but hey its not fun to be called that and they should both wait till their wedding day it for their best

Answer 8

it's a mans world

Answer 9

I never understood it either.

Answer 10

bull malarky aint it?