I planning on giving my friend a last day gift because its our last day in middle school.The problem is that my gift is my heart.See i have this thing for him which is like a crush but not as serious on him and I dont know if I should express them or just wait for him that is if he likes me. I already told him I have something thing for him and he said whatever it is I should return it.I dont know if he was joking though. What should I do?
2006-06-14 14:57:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, it's a bit of a gamble. Ask yourself this simple question... Will you regret not doing it?
However, I will say if one were to go by generalizations, most boys in middle school are rather immature. Girls are not emotionally in the equation. They are eye candy at that point and fun to tease and poke fun at. However, most guys are really not seriously into love. This is not indicative of all guys in middle school, but I can vouch for it when I went through middle school. I really doubt much as has changed in the last 15 or so years.
You just got to tell yourself there is a chance he might laugh and not really comprehend your gesture. You have to be a little prepared for rejection. It will happen atleast once to you, don't let it frighten you from ever trying.
I would probably simply express my feelings instead of doing something crazy romantic. I don't really think most guys get that side of females. Hence, why they always pick fun and call movies containing romance - "chick flicks."
I can sympathize with you too. I had a crush on a guy friend. On VDay I confessed my feelings by giving him a card and stuffed animal. In one of my periods, I saw his friend with the stuffed animal. He had given it away. Pretty hurtful, and I got the message clearly about how he felt.
I can't tell you to do it or not do it. It's not that simple. But, live life don't let it live you.
Whatever you do. Good Luck!
2006-06-14 15:06:38 · answer #1 · answered by Lynnsie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would give him a card telling him how you feel and let the chips fall because if you don't you will just drive you crazy. Good luck
2006-06-14 15:03:55 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get married till your 30 listen to Tom Lykes
2006-06-14 15:00:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a watch. You do want to give him your time & the tick of your heart, right?
2006-06-14 14:59:46 · answer #4 · answered by mrsdebra1966 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you should not give it to him - if he asks about it say - sorry i returned it - let him chase you for a bit!!
2006-06-14 14:59:41 · answer #5 · answered by Shopaholic Chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋