I'm always thinking about sex and my husband does not seem to need it as much.
2006-06-14 14:25:33 · 20 answers · asked by annie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
be sexy be obvious rub yourself like your horny if he doesnt notice dont stop meet him in bed and do it and if he doesnt notice then repeat with roses if he doesnt notice then slap his ***
2006-06-14 14:27:23 · answer #1 · answered by not me but you 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I am a husband, and my wife is just like you. She ask me to do it, almost every night. Sometimes I go along with her, but sometimes, I just find excuses.
It is true, a man, tend to decrease his libido after 25 years old. It happend to me when I reach 27 years old, I got a lot to do in office, and got a lot to think of beside sex. At first, I think twice a week is enough, but my wife think otherwise.
So, until today, there were no answer for this problem, I tend to not think about it, but when i read your question, then I realize, that maybe she really need it.
So I think, if i can not give my "equipment", i can always give her my finger or oral...I will try this to night...
any comment?
2006-06-14 15:08:21 · answer #2 · answered by putradbm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably has to do with your ages. Women tend to go thru a peak in their sex drive around the age of 30. Some are earlier and some are later though. Men's sex drive tends to drop off after they turn 25. All I can tell you is, that if this is the problem then you will both level out in a few years.
2006-06-14 14:38:17 · answer #3 · answered by ch46marinewife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Much to peoples belief women want sex more than men. I think that with women sex is more than just having an orgasm it is deeper and when women do not have it, seems like a form of rejection. Talk to your husband, communication is so important. Try something different to peak his interest. Good Luck!
2006-06-14 15:26:18 · answer #4 · answered by lele 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations! You've reached your sexual peak!
Try to entice your husband into long sessions of foreplay.
Wear costumes, buy toys, watch videos. If he's too tired to play, masterbate in front of him.
If you don't keep secrets from your husband, ask if you can find someone who will participate in your games with his permission.
Sex is very important in a marriage. He may even have erectile dysfunction or a medical condition that makes him less needy, so don't get frustrated.
Talk it over with your husband and perhaps see a doctor or a sex therapist if things get extreme.
2006-06-14 14:34:26 · answer #5 · answered by Siddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't much choice really, find another lover, and stay married. Divorce and find someone, with the same sex drive as yours.
Masturbate a lot, do the computer thing, with cyber sex, etc.
You have a lot of thinking to do. Maybe someone else has better answers for you.
2006-06-14 14:29:08 · answer #6 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use your hand. I know what you mean but at the same time, sex drive is like everything else. You can't have everything in your life exactly at the same speed, you are two different people. Your hand will do the trick till the next round with your guy!
2006-06-14 14:29:21 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband doesn't feel like having sex but you do, go take care of it yourself!! That's what he would do if he were in your shoes...
2006-06-14 14:31:44 · answer #8 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your the type of person who want more sex than you need don't you? my boyfriend all he thinks is sex and no i don't give it to him much>...
2006-06-14 14:29:41 · answer #9 · answered by aznsexygirl_16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife just pounces on me and say lets get it on lol!!! She does not hint around she gets to the point and i love it lol.... She is my little sex kitten!
2006-06-14 14:27:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's the opposite of me. You and I need to drive each other wild!!
2006-06-14 14:28:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋