I am beside myself with grief, so I was just wondering if he is happy & if he can see all of the awards that he recieved in his short 18 years here on earth...
2006-06-14 13:51:49 · 31 answers · asked by missyannsmith71 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Lexy,
I am deeply sorry for your loss, however, remember you son is now in a better place and is watching over his mother. Read Sylvia Brown's "Life on the Other Side". I have had too many close experiences with death and this has really helped me understand what is to happen next. Our bodies will terminate, however we will not.
Nate
2006-06-14 13:55:23 · answer #1 · answered by Nathan S. 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I believe in heaven but I don't believe that we go there immediately upon our death. I believe that your son is still with us here on earth waiting for the second coming. His soul and his spirit is all around you and he is fine. I believe in being saved and if this was the case for your son than he will return to the Lord when He comes back. Keep him in your mind and heart and he will never be apart from you. I know it's hard and everyday is a struggle. I have lost many people along the way but I know they are with me and it is of great comfort.
I am not sure what you mean by the awards that he has received? Were they given to him after his death?
2006-06-14 14:01:45 · answer #2 · answered by jeezmeneti66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have watched people on tv(John Edwards show) he can talk to the dead. and everyone that he talks to(the relatives) first thing they ask is this question about our loved ones on the other side.
do you believe he is in heaven and that your son is watching you and that he is met by other relatives that have gone before him? If you do, then believe he is happy, happy to see his relatives and the he misses his mom too. have you noticed things that remind you of him??
maybe go to a grief site, yahoo has groups there is one for grieving and losing children. maybe talking with others in your situation might help the process.
2006-06-14 14:00:53 · answer #3 · answered by cats3inhouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is with you always in memories. Keep his photos with you. If I were you I would buy a nice sterling or gold locket and keep your favorite photo of him in it to wear all the time. I'm very sorry about what happened and hopw you find peace.
*On another note...you may also want to change you 360 page with all the comments about big c ocks on it and f ucking. I don't think your son would want to know about that and know that his mom was trying to hook up on the internet for sex. You also have an 11 yr old who may get wind of this. Be careful what you expose him to.
2006-06-14 14:06:14 · answer #4 · answered by bearklektor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously had that special love that can only be shared between a mother and son. He was very lucky to have your love, and you're lucky you had this bond with someone that was so strong and so bright that it hurts this bad to lose him. I know you don't feel lucky, but some people will go to their grave never knowing that love. He will live forever in your mind, your heart and your soul, and all the love you have shared with him will last through eternity well beyond the grave.
2006-06-14 13:56:01 · answer #5 · answered by Miranda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL HONEY HE IS WHERE EVER YOU ARE ALWAYS AND FOREVER.... TALK TO HIM HE WILL GIVE YOU A SIGN WHERE IT BE A SOUND OR MOVE SOMETHING ... HE WILL LET YOU KNOW... THEY ALSO TALK TO YOU IN DREAMS..... LISTEN TO ME HE WAS HAPPY WITH YOU BEING HIS MOTHER AND HE IS STILL HAPPY BECAUSE HE SEES YOU EVERYDAY I KNOW YOU CAN FEEL HIM... YOU KNOW YOU CAN FEEL HIM....THOSE AWARDS YOU SPEAK OF HE ACCOMPLISHED BECAUSE YOU WERE THERE TO GUIDE HIM LOVE HIM AND CHERISH HIM.... HE WAS A BETTER PERSON BECAUSE YOU WERE IN HIS SHORT LIFE HE LEARNED ALL HE NEEDED IN THIS LIFE THERE IS A FEW MORE THINGS YOU HAVE LEFT TO LEARN AND THE FIRST ONE IS THAT YOUR SON LOVES YOU A GREAT DEAL HE IS AROUND YOU...... TALK TO HIM EITHER OUT LOUD OR INSIDE YOUR HEAD HE CAN HEAR IT... WHEN YOU HEART BECOMES CALM AND YOU DO NOT FEEL LONELY ANYMORE THAT IS HIM..... JUST UNDERSTAND EVERYTHING YOU WANTED TO TELL HIM HE ALREADY KNOWS BUT TELL HIM AGAIN.... HE IS LISTENING O.K. WE ALL ARE YOU ARE NOT ALONE EVER HE IS IN HEAVEN ITS JUST CLOSER THAN WE THOUGHT IT WAS BEFORE... ITS ACTUALLY 3FEET OFF THE GROUND... ALL AROUND US ALL THE TIME.... DO NOT BE SAD GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS
2006-06-14 14:13:10 · answer #6 · answered by rawdawgsgo_hard2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To heaven. I am a firm believer in signs from people that have passed. If you see something or feel something and think he is there, he is. You will find something that signifies his presence. For me, it is rainbows. I never saw a full rainbow until my grandpa died, and every time I see one, I think of him and know he's looking down on me. My heart goes out to you...I can't imagine going through what you are. God Bless.
2006-06-14 14:05:50 · answer #7 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH SWEETIE, I'M SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. I DON'T THINK THERE IS A GREATER PAIN THEN THE LOSS OF A CHILD. I'VE RECENTLY HAD A LOSS IN THE FAMILY, AN INFANT. IT'S DEVASTATING.
YOUR SON IS IN HEAVEN AND HE'S IN YOUR HEART AND HE'S HAPPY CUZ HE KNOWS ONE DAY YOU'RE GONNA JOIN HIM, WHEN IT'S YOUR TIME. LIVE YOUR LIFE FOR HIM. HE'D WANT YOU TO CONTINE ON AND BE HAPPY. OF COURSE YOU'VE GOT TO GRIEVE, BUT REMEMBER YOUR SON DOESN'T WANT YOU TO BE MISERABLE THE REST OF YOUR LIFE.
NO MATTER WHAT ANYONE SAYS BELIEVE THAT. DON'T LET ANYONE BRING YOU DOWN. IGNORE ALL IGNORANT, NEGATIVITY. IF YOU DON'T BELIEVE, WHAT'S LEFT IS TOO HORRIBLE TO CONSIDER. TAKE CARE AND I PRAY YOU'LL FIND PEACE IN YOUR HEART.
2006-06-14 14:00:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is in good care.
He has all the good friends, all the good meals, all the good room for him to relax as GOD guest of honour.
He know how great you love him and he too really miss and love you coz you`re the best mom that can`t be replace even in heaven.He is happy and okay now, so you should be happy and okay too.
Wish you well.
2006-06-14 14:46:37 · answer #9 · answered by crazy lazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's with you spiritually all the time. Hes consrantly watching you, and taking care. Even if it feels that hes not there, he's ALWAYS in your heart and soul, Don't ever forget that. Noone can ever tell you otherwise. I am supporting you all the way. Loosing a love one can be hard, but you'll make it throuhg, I promise!
2006-06-14 13:59:29 · answer #10 · answered by Colerain_Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋