Do you find it attractive or less attractive if, your man cooks, and cleans, around the house.?

Question

I cook, clean, do laundry, handy work around the house, do homework with kids, basicaly a homemaker. Do you think this also makes me less of a man or more of a man?

I don't work outside the home yet.
I plan on going to collage next year to studie counseling.

Answer 1

you see, women will see you more as the kind of a man they would like to have, one that will cook and clean etc, it takes a lot of work and stress off the womans shoulders, and gives her more time be with him. On the other hand other men may think you are to femine, because most men have the idea that they need to be macho, and think of themselves as the king that rules. The king that rules will have the woman do everything for him, and have everything handed to him on a silver platter.

As for what I think, I think that sharing in the daily routine of household responsibilites with your partner makes you more of a man, and shows that you care and are considerate of your partner and your family time together.
Keep being a great man, husband and father!

Answer 2

I find it very considerate! I love when a men is willing to help out, especially when we both work the same amount of hours a week. We can get way more done in less time when we both clean, cook, etc together. More time for cuddlin and the good stuff!!
You sound like a great guy, keep up the fine work!

Answer 3

I think that if the women is not working and the man is the man should not have to come home and cook and clean. Cooking a nice meal every once in awhile for his family is ok. But if hes out there workin his butt of and wife isent, i belive that the house better be looking good every night and dinner on the table for him. thats what i do for my man!! and I love doing that for him cause he works his but off for me and the kids

Answer 4

I dated a man for 10 months even though I didn't find him attractive when I first met him .....all because he cooked for me! I find that a very attractive trait in a man. Do you work outside the home or are you a Mr Mom?

Answer 5

Oh my goodness! Yes, this is so attractive. Can't find alot of men who can cook and do woman chores out there. It's nice to have a man that will help the woman out.

I call This A REAL MAN.

You are blessed!!!

Answer 6

I think it's great if a guy is willing to do that, some men expect to be waited on hand and foot, but realationships are supposed to be 50/50
and a quick side note on that whole 50/50 thing....my fellow ladies, stop complaining if he leaves the seat up....if he is lifting the seat to go and putting it down again when he's done, he is doing all the work, he lifts, you lower.....50/50....so all you feminists out there, that is my definition of equality!

Answer 7

I think more. Cause the woman is usually doing all that plus working. but your giving her a break after coming home from work. Your defiantly a man even if all those things seem girly. They are just chores and responsiblities.

Answer 8

Ok I think that cooking and cleaning doesn't make you less of a man i think that it makes a very good impression on kids.

Answer 9

I see it as more of a man, doing these things so your wife/significant other doesnt have to. If you like doing these activities and take pride in it, why would it make you less of a man?? It shows that you are a family man.

Answer 10

com'on u r a man & everybody know it.personally i think men seem more attractive to me while they r coocking & doing such a thing even more than a woman because women would do this work with kind of humility but men don't.I would respect my husband a lot if he would help me in this work.of course u r more than a man.What makes u different makes u beautiful.