2006-06-14 12:46:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i love guys. and i've had crushes on many and i have a crush on one for more than 3 years.but is it bad that i havent dated
2006-06-14 12:48:49 · update #1
No, I do not feel it is bad that you have not dated. As a thirteen year old, you still have a lot of growing up to do, and chances are, so does the person you are pursuing. I am not saying that dating is a bad thing, but as young people we tend to be careless and carried away in the moment.
When I was younger, I noticed that guys my age were not ready to settle down, and that all of my relationships ended with a broken heart. Not only did it hurt, but it made me lose a lot of trust in the opposite sex.
My suggestion would be to wait. Take care of your priorities first, then think about relationships. There is someone out there for everyone, but I can almost guarantee that you will not find him now. It will happen when you are both old enough, and mature enough to see that there is more to life than what you see now.
Good luck to you.
2006-06-14 12:55:44 · answer #1 · answered by miakoda_05 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! I didnt have my first serious relationship until I was 14. There is nothing wrong with not dating anyone. Go have fun with your friends...there is plenty of time to think of that in the next few years.
2006-06-14 13:11:15 · answer #2 · answered by Preggo with # 2 YAY! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong at all with that. I would think that more people would find something wrong with being 13 and dating than being 13 and not.
I didn't have a girlfriend until I was almost 16. Nothing wrong with waiting 'til your older.
2006-06-14 14:49:33 · answer #3 · answered by The Bowman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hardly, you are trying to grow up too fast. 13 yr olds need to enjoy being a teenager not hooking up and trying to remain exclusive w/one person. There is plenty of time for that. Go out with groups of your friends and enjoy lots of people. My girl didn't have her first b/f until she turned 17 and had a ball w/the youth group at church and her friends at school. Sure she wanted a b/f but she didn't wait around for someone to show up. She went out and had fun and probably was more social than her friends who waited at home for their b/f to call them (if they did).
2006-06-14 12:58:09 · answer #4 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are one of the few intelligent ones left. There is nothing wrong with you. Don't be in a hurry to be an adult, you have the whole rest of your life having no choice but to be one. Then you will wish you were a child again.
2006-06-14 12:50:46 · answer #5 · answered by sceptileptic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I'm fifteen and I have had crushes but haven't dated. You're too young anyway, and the bfs/gfs you have won't last for more than a month. Give it more time.
2006-06-14 12:50:28 · answer #6 · answered by chas_see 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not bad at all. Some people date later in life. Take your time until you are ready!
2006-06-14 14:25:48 · answer #7 · answered by La La 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i didnt date when i was 13 years old i didnt start dating until i was 16
2006-06-14 13:17:44 · answer #8 · answered by esile619 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. 13 is too young to have to be worrying about relationships. Enjoy your youth and your freedom!
2006-06-14 12:50:46 · answer #9 · answered by margarita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of coursee not
it may seem like everyone around you is dating, but the thing is, they're relationships probably only like like a week or so.
don't worry. it's probably just the pressure that people in society put on kids nowadays. i know it sucks.
2006-06-14 13:38:25 · answer #10 · answered by her 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋