Cant help thinking about my neibour (almost 24/7) Trouble is -she,s married and so am i. Whenever she wants work done , i try to get over as soon as i can, but cant help thinking im being used.
2006-06-14 12:14:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tricky one, it's not like you can avoid her as she is your neighbour, but I would say be very careful, a lot of people can get hurt here and if you are neighbours it could make things difficult if things get ugly. Take care x
2006-06-14 12:20:12 · answer #1 · answered by Karen S 3 · 8⤊ 6⤋
wait.. lets get this straight.. u r married and so is ur neighbor to two different people, yet u cant quit thinking bout her... do you see anything wrong with that picture? you need to do alittle soul searching.. stop and think whats so wrong with ur relationship with ur spouse at home that is making u look else where and what are you willing to do to fix it...married till death do u part ..for better or worse.. those arent just words....
2006-06-14 19:21:33 · answer #2 · answered by wildspirit1313 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not being used your falling in lust with this woman and because she's not said she likes you in that way you think your being used cos she only wanting errands done, you should say no to doing more errands and spend quality time with your wife
2006-06-14 19:38:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it stay a thought. Both of you are married. Its okay to have the thoughts you are having-just dont let it go further. Maybe you should do her favors less often. It may lead to trouble.
2006-06-14 19:20:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to stop thinking about her, it's hard I know, but it's for the best.
Try not to do so many favours for her, and concentrate on your wife as the person you are attracted to, not your neighbor.
2006-06-14 19:30:41 · answer #5 · answered by futurenovelist16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop doing the work for her and start doing it for your wife! its your wife u should be impressing and yes, u could well be being used there.
2006-06-15 00:32:39 · answer #6 · answered by crophilia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about her hubby and take ya mind of a things....
2006-06-14 19:24:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wish you were mine, I need the house pointing and got a lazy hubby!
2006-06-14 19:18:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IDIOT.
2006-06-14 19:21:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋