How can I tell my best friend I want to experiment sexually with her, without risk losing her as a friend?

Question

I don't think I'm lesbian, but I still want to try it. And there is no one I would rather try it with than her.

Answer 1

ask her how she feels about lesbians and lesbian sex ask her has she ever tried it if so ask how she felt and why build a convo off that if she answers badly to the 1st to back off and find another friend aw if she answer were u think u can ask her and u ask her and shewonders y tell her exactly what u wrote above

Answer 2

thats a really good question! well my frieind is gay. He expierenced with a girl and said he didnt loose their realtionship. But anyways this is kinda diff. Why dont u tell her that ur not lesbian but u just dont trust any guy rite now. and that u really want to still be her friend after but not sexually. and if u dont want to try it w/ her rite now y dont u wait till u find someone you trust

Answer 3

lesbian is the correct word for women that have sex with women. Why are you courious about it. This may be happening around you or in your school what ever the reason is for you to want to try this just know it's not the plan that God planned for your life. You are trying to make this a way of life for yourself when you don't even know if this is what you want or you won't be asking questions about it. You may have a million reasons to do wrong things but it only takes one right reason to make you change your thinking. The more thought you put to this the more you will want to do this. It's not that your born with these ideas as a baby you have no ideas. You heard it, seen it or read it somewhere and the thought was placed in your mind and from there depending on how much you have replayed and replayed this in your mind it's not that you can't stop thinking about it. the fact of the matter is you CHOOSE to keep it in your mind instead of switching the thought to something else whenever the thought comes. the longer you allow the thought is allowed to make brain waves in the bootons of your brain the more it will seem natural to you the more you look at things like that on tv and videos and it enters your bootons in your brain the more it will seen natural to you. But from the beginning of time before sin entered this world it was ADAM and EVE that God made in the perfect world of Eden. the Bible says resist the devil and he will flee from you, don't let this thought clutter your mind long or that slew-footed serpent called the devil will try to take over your mind get you involved in sin and then destroy you. But it's not to late yet. Seek God first and His righteousness and all else will be provided to you. Seek knowledge from Him that made you. If He made you and gave you your being He will know how to fulfill your heart, spirit, and soul.

Answer 4

well;

Maybe u should just tell her wat u clearly said above ^^ tht sounds good! and tell her u dont want to risk losing her as a friend; u were just asking and curious. Trust me everything will go fine. And wat ur feeling is totally normal :)

Answer 5

well sit together and tell her how u feel in a fun way...how is that possible

Answer 6

tell her what u just stated above

Answer 7

Why would you want to do that? you are not supposed to be doing that at all, you are supposed to be with men not with the same sex, you are weird.

Answer 8

how old r u

Answer 9

well maybe ur friend is like u and just trying to find a way 2 ask u. so u shud tell her wat u said above and just c wat happens.

Answer 10

Just tell her wat u told us!! bu tto b truthful with u uya might be bisexual!!! or les!!