She is a lez. She keeps calling me babe and hun. She pretty much cyber with me. I try not to do it back. Wat should I do?
2006-06-14 11:28:54 · 27 answers · asked by my_hottie_boyfriend 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
she's a gurl
2006-06-14 11:29:37 · update #1
I still wanna be friends
2006-06-14 11:35:23 · update #2
How do I stop to cyber. I try not to get into that conversation, but when we do, I can't tell her I don't wanna even though I don't.
2006-06-14 11:36:16 · update #3
Well first off ask her...be like hey i was just wondering...do you like me as more than friend???
If yes... DO NOT...AND I MEAN DO NOT automatically go into the fetal position and be like"get away from me!!!" Just gently say, hey look, i'm flattered, but I just dont see you that way...
If no...she'll probably ask why, and you just casually say, just wondering, if she's persistent, like saying"why? Tell me!!!" Just say, well i got the impressio that you liked me, that's all...
Does that help???
O and another thing...it's very common for people to refer to other people as hun, or babe...Personally, i use hun ALOT....
2006-06-14 13:58:59 · answer #1 · answered by Chef Shortie 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Everyone is intittled to their oun oppinion, buy if you want to put them to the test here's how. When ever they call to go somewhere always say i only have a dollar. Now the 1st couple of times just leave it at that no matter what happens. However, you should notice that when they think you are broke they will slowly quit calling. And the ones that continue to call are your freinds.
2006-06-14 18:34:24 · answer #2 · answered by davidrogerusa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a straight heterosexual female. My answer goes for everyone, straight/gay/bi..whatever you are in your life..
You should not ever cyber with her if you do not have feelings for her. You are toying with her emotions and are leading her to believe she might possibly have a chance with you.This is cruel for anyone to do to another person, no matter what sexual orientation you are.
Its best you tell her how you feel sexualy and you might be able to save a good friendship that way.
2006-06-14 18:33:02 · answer #3 · answered by The Chesire Cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not bi or lesbian and are not interested the best way to handle it without offending her or jumping to conclusions is to casually mention guys you like or have dated in the past.She'll more than likely get the hint.It sounds to me that she is probably feeling you out.No pun intended.If it continues and really bothers you,you may have to be blunt and tell her that you are flattered at her attention to you but you are strictly dickly!Unless of course you're a little bi-curious????
2006-06-14 18:33:28 · answer #4 · answered by kalasmom3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try being assertive. Being assertive respects her rights as well as yours. It's not fair to you to be put in that situation and is it really fair to her, to get the idea that you like it because you reciprocate. you should tell her in a clear, calm and patient manner, that it's just not something that you're into and that the most you two can be is friends.
2006-06-15 09:48:20 · answer #5 · answered by sooziebeaker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yop this is a girl thing to call other girls baby Hun. My sister have a boyfriend but she calls her friends Huns. It's all good don't worry
2006-06-14 18:31:03 · answer #6 · answered by Detective Emil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say cyber, so im guessing she is an internet contact, you can always get out the easy way and block her ... but its really up to u on how ud like to approach it
2006-06-14 18:32:41 · answer #7 · answered by Tad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think i understand how you feel but you should talk toher if she's just a friend ask her if she likes anybody if she refuses to say she likes someone then maybe where she comes from everybody calls everybody that but if i were you i would try to be sure that i was 100% sure that she was lez
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-14 18:33:43 · answer #8 · answered by <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends are u a les if not try to find a another girl to like better but i cant help much im a guy
2006-06-14 18:31:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should consider giving it a shot. There is nothing wrong with it and you will probably have a very good time.
2006-06-14 18:31:23 · answer #10 · answered by unusualpsycho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋