Would anyone find it offensive if their child after being married with one child tried for a child to be due on the birthday of her grandfather who passed on....
2006-06-14 11:10:35 · 22 answers · asked by greeneyedmommy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i am not the mom i am the daughter--- moms just alittle wierd
2006-06-14 11:14:37 · update #1
I think that is so cool! Why would it be offensive? Little trivia, in my family we have one person in every generation who is born on January 20th. So far that's four generations of at least one family member born on that day! The whole family thinks that's really funny and cool!
2006-06-14 11:15:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No not at all. My son was born a week before my grandma died and I am firm believer that things happen for a reason so as one checked out one checked in. Its very symbolic too and gives you a reason to not totally hate the day. To rejoice and remember on it. It also could be fitting to have child named middle or 1st name after the grandfather.
2006-06-14 11:13:59 · answer #2 · answered by Brooklyn Baller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is really strange that this question would come up....My daughter is due on the day that my grandfather passed away there's no telling if she will give birth on that day but I do find it a bit creepy
2006-06-14 11:18:01 · answer #3 · answered by mygirl971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone handles death's,birth's,etc in there own ways and maybe she just wants to remember her grandfather in her own way and this just so happens to be her way of finding a way to celebrate her grandfather forever more too,as well as celebrating something else that is so dear to her heart that she cant describe it in words.
Do you understand what i am trying to say?- I hope so.
Personally i think it is a great Honor to her grandfather, also have you tried to ask her what her own reason's and intentions for doing this on this date are? You might understand more of her reason's etc for doing so if you ask her straight out why she wants to have a child ON this particular date.
2006-06-14 11:17:06 · answer #4 · answered by muncher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say i see why my sister has named all of her kids after family and friends that have passed and for a long time it has ticked me off becuse the kids are all father less and she runs around and now this kids hold the name of some one i loved dearly but now that i am closer and i see the kids all the time i dont mind any more . Hope this helps
2006-06-14 11:27:59 · answer #5 · answered by silver01222000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not find it offensive at all. It means that the person had a lot of respect towards his/her grandfather and his/her grandfather is a person who (s)he admired a lot
2006-06-14 11:15:19 · answer #6 · answered by ___ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2006-06-14 11:13:01 · answer #7 · answered by Sentient6 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think it is a great honor to her grandfather. It is a forever reminder of who she is and where she came from.
2006-06-14 11:12:17 · answer #8 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would think that the child really cares about her grandfather
2006-06-14 11:12:37 · answer #9 · answered by mkh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think nothing of it. It would more than likely not happen, the baby decides when it'll pop out.
I would be flattered personaly. Nothing to be too worried about really unless she goes psycho about it.
2006-06-14 11:12:55 · answer #10 · answered by Dahlias 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋