I know no-one has the answer, but manybe some opinions
2006-06-14 11:04:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know that this is going to sound extremely harsh and cold hearted but believe me mine died just 7months ago and although i have not got over it and doubt i ever will the only thing that you can do really is to get on with your life as if you think about it i am sure that they wouldn't of wanted you to be sad,lonely,depressed etc for the rest of your life would they? No i doubt that very much so as hard as it may seem and I'm not saying forget them as I'm sure that you never will, but get on with life and enjoy it, you only live once and you never know when your time might come.
I feel for you-i know how much something like this hurts. x x
Sorry for your loss.
2006-06-14 11:11:41 · answer #1 · answered by muncher 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now, this is meant to be in no-way mean, but if he died, was he really your soul mate? My thought on that is no. My opinion on that is that you still have time to find him. He may have been someone you loved so much, you didn't think you could stand to live without him, BUT, you can. I think you need to keep searching(give yourself plenty of time) and someday when you least expect it, he'll be there! You have your whole life to find this one person who completes you!! And as for the question, " What are you supposed to do for the rest of your life?" The answer is, " Go on living." I know it must be hard, but that's the only thing that you can do. Would this man want you to stop living your life? Just remember, "Go on living."
2006-06-14 11:17:09 · answer #2 · answered by bizarre_jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex Shaun and I broke up in February and through it all we never fell out of love with each and neither of us moved on. He took his own life two weeks ago at the age of 27 so I know what that feels like. The last thing I ever said to him was that I loved him and he to me. I know we will reunite one day in Heaven and he is watching over my kid's and I now he loved us all. Moving on is a personal decision I don't want anyone else I decided that when Shaun and I broke up though I continue to live life happily I await my soulmate and my reunion for life beyond this one.
2006-06-14 11:31:51 · answer #3 · answered by alone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would 1st like to say if my friend ever read this answer to know i did it to help some1. but anyway my friend soul mate died when he was young and she had a place in her heart for him already instead of that grow to love stuff. she went many years going out and stuff but eventually she found no1 as special as him. 1 day i guess she just became quiet cause her soul was off i guess. i came into her life and made her proud again. and now she has a boyfriend and taking it slow. i have her back and will always keep up with her to make sure she ok.
i guess what i'm saying is it may be hard to wait for instant repair but eventually some1 will give you a reason why you should be happy again.
2006-06-15 23:33:53 · answer #4 · answered by INOTFRIEND 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing you can do is move on. its sounds so cold harded but would your loved one want you to spend the rest of your life crying and sitting around depressed. no they would want you to find love and be happy again.you know your spouse would want you to be happy and not stay home. go out and have fun and focus right now on you. focus on your future, dont forget about your love just put him aside for a lil while out of the week.visit him on saturday but dont dwell on it . i know it is hard , i know but i had to focus on other things and try to move on slowly, it wont take a week or a month it will take a while.good luck.
2006-06-14 11:25:16 · answer #5 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do what he or she would want you to do. Carry on with your life. Remember him or her always and remember, no one is ever truly dead, they've just moved on to another plain of life on the other side. You will meet again. In the meantime live your earthly life and be happy!
2006-06-14 11:07:51 · answer #6 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you already should know there will be no one like that person, no one can replace this person but you can still find someone who is on your wave length and respects your memory of a love lost.
Love can be stretched to more than one person.
2006-06-14 11:07:43 · answer #7 · answered by Dahlias 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter died, you take it one day at a time, then you get on with your own life .It comes and goes..
2006-06-14 11:13:21 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry for ur lost depends on u and if u want or r ready to move its all up to u and only u thats the best i could give sorry again for ur lost
2006-06-14 11:08:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to try to find love again.
2006-06-14 11:08:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋