my bf is really immature what do i do i still love him and all but he drives me nuts
2006-06-14 10:29:05 · 11 answers · asked by darahdawn 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
tell your boyfriend how you feel, there's got to be communication in a relationship. if he refuses to change what drives u nuts, then leave him. don't waste your time with someone who drives u crazy. good luck!
2006-06-15 15:39:44 · answer #1 · answered by Alexis Samira 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Love him? sounds like your both a little young. First of all all men drive us women nuts. That's life and guys mature at a much slower rate than us women. You have two choices 1st, stay with him and try to set up some relationship guidelines for the two of you. or 2, leave him to his own immaturity. There are many good guys out there don't waste your time with someone who isn't willing to grow up a bit. God bless, CJ
2006-06-14 10:42:37 · answer #2 · answered by Freedombrooke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough situation. My best friend just told me that she feels the same way about her boyfriend. She said that she really loves him, but she just want him to GROW UP!! This may not be alot of help, but the truth is......most guys never grow up and always stay immature!! Not all of them, but the majority. Just tell him how you feel. It may change, and it may not. Depending on how old you are, I would say to just give it time. Let him go through his "boy" stage. Once he outgrows that (considering he ever does), than you can decide if you want a long-term relationship with him. Hope this helps!! Good luck!!
2006-06-14 12:04:50 · answer #3 · answered by Honeybee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plenty fish in a pond why do you want to bother yourself with an immature guy! It takes time for a guy to mature and i do not think you want to hang around till that long right! So tell him sorry but you need a mature guy!
2006-06-14 10:45:22 · answer #4 · answered by Pari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your bf is immature, it seems to me like u are datting a child, or even worse, like you have to take care of him when you guys go out just so he won't do anything childish. Girls mature faster than guys. but if you really love him i think you should hang in there.
2006-06-14 11:42:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm.... that's a pretty tough situation. You could tell him how you feel and maybe he'll grow up a little. Sorry this isn't much help but good luck!
2006-06-14 11:36:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dump him or give him a lecture and tell him to grow up
2006-06-14 14:08:04 · answer #7 · answered by babynam2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well leave him
your not going to mold him into what you want
thats just who he is
2006-06-14 10:33:30 · answer #8 · answered by myspaceaddict 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dumb him or tell him how you feel about him and that he needs to grow up!
2006-06-14 10:33:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u feel
2006-06-14 11:38:31 · answer #10 · answered by breakfastclubfan007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋