I mean, I'm the type of person that will do anything for a friend that isn't demeaning or hurtful to me or someone else but lately it feels as if I have been a fool. She gets mad when I don't talk to her becasue of something she did, she always ask me for stuff and begging. Does she see me as a friend or a perfect person to use?
2006-06-14 10:23:56 · 11 answers · asked by K G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
When you have had enough, you have had enough.
2006-06-14 10:26:18 · answer #1 · answered by frontmann2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I have the same problems as you. She's just using you. Sometimes I feel like the only time people ever need me is when they need to ask for something. I feel I am constantly being taken advantage of. The thing is I think other people sometimes get the idea that niceness is weakness and I think they probably think nice people are stupid. We're not. I just feel strongly on this and you don't have to put up with it.
2006-06-14 17:28:47 · answer #2 · answered by Ahhh....Me Time 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe she is controlling, I do the same thigns with my friends but i feel sometimes i'm being use, but then they do somethign nice 4 me and i don't feel the same way. You have to know deep in ur heart is this person is using u or not, i mean you just know by the way the act with u or the way the talk to u.
2006-06-14 17:26:25 · answer #3 · answered by bibibi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends can be a pain in the a**, and usually are at one time or another. Your friend is going through facing some insecurity issues that do not belong to you. Take it easy, let if flow, but don't be afraid to say, "I haven't got time right now."
2006-06-14 17:27:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have not been a fool, if she did something you don't want her to do then tell her. I say a perfect person to use but that my pained of it. Talk to her tell her what she can tell you what to do and not to do!
2006-06-14 17:37:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you honestly have to ask people this question and you have someone in mind, Then there is a doubt about that person. if there are doubts about a friendship, then its not a good thing
2006-06-14 17:27:44 · answer #6 · answered by Lauren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just see u as a doormate. walks all over you. if she says that she likes ur stuff more than her then theres anothe reason why. thats why u gotta pick ur friends more carefully
2006-06-14 17:27:12 · answer #7 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long is the time you know her could bee the answer give it time
2006-06-14 17:33:09 · answer #8 · answered by sonboyfather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your nice ness has gotten her to take advantage of you. =[ sorry
2006-06-14 17:27:37 · answer #9 · answered by laurennn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use.
2006-06-14 17:25:00 · answer #10 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋