okay i had a boyfriend named jake and we were together for like a month or so. but then i brokeup with him because he flirted with to many girls. but the same day i brokeup with him after skewl, another guy asked me to be his gf. and i said yes cuz i used to have a crush on him earlier in the year. and me and him have been going out like for a week already and i miss jake soooo much!!!!!!!!!! i wish i never broke up with him. but sometimes i like the other guy and sometimes i dont. and i dont want to breakup with him cuz i dont want to break his heart! cuz he likes me alot. and i think jake is pissed at me for breaking up with him, cuz he liked me alot too. wat should i do??????????
2006-06-14 10:21:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ive also thought about cheating on them but that would just make things worse right?
2006-06-14 10:37:57 · update #1
I think the best thing for you to do is to be honest with yourself. Learn to check your real feeling for this two guys in your life. Who you love and who you dont. If you had find out who you really want then be frank and honest with the other guy.
You are not actually cheating on someone else but you are cheating yourself. Learn to love in an honest and real way. Hope you find the real love in your life.
2006-06-15 02:02:51 · answer #1 · answered by Trisha143 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is going to sound crazy, but it really does work. OK, so you attach colors or something else to them, say, the new guy is green and Jake is red, or the new guy is New York and Jake is Los Angeles, or something of that nature. Then you ask somebody who does not know about the situation to choose between red and green, or New York and LA. then, when they choose you either end up feeling relieved because they chose the one you wanted but didn't know you wanted, or disappointed because they didn't chose the one you wanted but didn't know it. You just end up finding out who you really want to be with.
2006-06-14 10:40:36 · answer #2 · answered by Mariah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is one of those questions that only u can answer. but let me say this, speaking from experiences, i would say dont jump too fast into or out of any relationship, and it sounds like you may be young enough to tell you that you have alot of time to get involved with boys, so dont rush it, it goes by faster than u think! you may find out later in life that you wish u might have been enjoying the time with the one u are with instead of wasting it worrying about which one.
2006-06-14 10:29:06 · answer #3 · answered by harmonyandericjrburns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to forget about jake because when he was luck enough to be with you, he was flirting with other girls. however if jake asks you to go out with him again bc he misses you and loves you, then ask yourslef if you're ready to go back to a relationship where you didn't trust the guy.
2006-06-14 10:26:06 · answer #4 · answered by lovemeforever229 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tell the new guy that you are not sure of your feelings and that you need some time to think about things...........you shouldn't rush things either I mean u really cannot get over a guy in less than a day it does take time..........Just think about who you want to be with more and if it is the new guy then go for it if not then i guess you should just go with your heart and who you want to be with............Good Luck.................
2006-06-14 10:27:11 · answer #5 · answered by Mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask jake if he wants to get back together. Don't lead this other guy on if you aren't into the relationship
2006-06-14 10:24:38 · answer #6 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're allowed to have 2 boyfriends!
Just make sure they know that you're dating both of them.
Be honest and tell them that you just can't decide right now but you will soon.
That's what I always did. They may not lkie it but if they both love you, they won't leave you.
They will stay around hoping to be the CHOSEN one.
Also, if one of them WERE to leave, that means that they weren't THAT much in love with you to begin with. That way you will find out who loves you the most!
2006-06-14 10:30:51 · answer #7 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just call jake and talk to him and then tell him how much you miss him and love.
2006-06-14 10:30:05 · answer #8 · answered by Sexy Grrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up!
You broke up with your boyfriend because you were too adolescent to handle the pressure and were jealous.
Now you see what your missing...
Its called maturity, and it comes through heartaches and heart breaks...
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-06-14 10:25:35 · answer #9 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too young and immature to have relationships...how about just casual dating for now...
2006-06-14 10:33:39 · answer #10 · answered by twentythree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋