i got married young and after 10 yrs of being with my hus i left him and found someone else right away i have 2 kids they were confused for a long time but now they love my boyfriend..whom makes me happy so did my hubby he was a gr8 hubby but still i have no idea if i am still inlive with him and if he could ever work i dont want to confuse or hurt my children anymore , i donnot compleletly love my bf but i love him he makes me happy so did my hubby i still miss him its been almost 2 yrs we havent been together my 7 yr old daughter has celebral palsy she adores both men...
2006-06-14 10:03:22 · 10 answers · asked by deedee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
follow your heart dear, just follow your heart...
mamma
2006-06-14 10:05:48 · answer #1 · answered by rainbowz001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let heart tell u , i really believe that u are confuss for yourself but what ever u do just maybe sure u are making the right thing for your kids b/c i think that kids should always come before any man in this world no matter how much the man make u happy and no matter how much money or cars the man might have the kids should be first and be happy
2006-06-14 17:12:01 · answer #2 · answered by angel h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go back to your husband because you are still married to him. This is the right thing to do for you and your daughter. Back off and stay friends with your now current bf. Is your husband wanting to take you back and work on the marriage with you? Seek counseling and help for you marriage if need be... But you are still married and should return to your husband who you are still married too!
2006-06-14 17:08:06 · answer #3 · answered by Fast Steve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frist of all you should not Get your kids involed of your love life.It hard for her to gorwup way to fast.Second all You need to think it out .Get a pin and paper wright down your does and donts.Iam not trying to yell but I was and child that and morther brought in her love life.I didnt like keepen scert from my dad.It hurt but I didnt want to hurt her eathier.
2006-06-14 17:12:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a single mother...my first choice would be to make sure that I am making myself happy and making sure my child is taken care of first and foremost. You need to spend time on your own, nurture yourself, listen to your heart and take care of your little blessings!
2006-06-14 17:40:12 · answer #5 · answered by Kookala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to spend time with you and your kids somewhere you lost yourself along the way try loving you for a change and not depend on the latters to do so then you can lavish that love in someone else...
2006-06-14 17:06:04 · answer #6 · answered by luv41anatha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop thinking about your feelings for a moment and consider the kids. their really not as adaptable as we are,its takes them time to get comfortable to new surroundings,and earn new peoples trust. just slow down and take your baby girl it'll all come together.
2006-06-14 17:11:33 · answer #7 · answered by cwallflower32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is tough, but I think that you really need to be careful. I mean right now your kids are the most important.
2006-06-14 17:06:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hummmm, i think you just need to be single and raise your kids, they are smarter then we all think. i can look back now and id be disgusted with my mother if she was moving us around into a boyfriends house after leaving daddy, get your own place
2006-06-14 17:09:20 · answer #9 · answered by bambi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you leave husband......dum dum dum do whatever you want
2006-06-14 17:09:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋