My friend and I are always playing soccer together, and I enjoy it, because she is a great person to be with. But the thing is, she is way better than me. Not that I am bad, but she is like... WOW! Every time I play with her it makes me feel inferior. What should I do? I don't want to stop playing with her, but I don't like that feeling of inferiority either.
2006-06-14 10:01:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
Thats the thing. She also gets better grades than me, and is better at most other sports as well. There is nothing that we both do that I am better at.
2006-06-14 10:16:09 · update #1
sweetie there is one thing you have to learn about other girls: there is always going to be someone who is better than you or prettier than you or who has nicer things than you...no matter how talented or beautiful you are. you cant compare yourself to anyone else! she might be better at soccer but you are probably better than her at a ton of things. keep believing in yourself and be proud of who you are! maybe she can even teach you a few tips on the field. dont get down on yourself!
2006-06-14 10:08:42 · answer #1 · answered by Hez 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Well the first thing you gotta know is that people we love can be better than us in many things, but of course is always unpleasant they win you. Try to do other stuff whit your friend maybe some where you are very good, so you can beat her, and eventually soccer.
It is important you to remember that you should never feel inferior, we can not be masters on everything, learn to lose and enjoy it, don't put to much attention on things that don't deserve your time.
2006-06-14 17:11:47 · answer #2 · answered by CHIO BABY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There will always be people that are more talented than us in areas. Belive it are not...you have abilities in certain areas that are better than others. Just do your best and be happy for your friend...she's more important to you than your feeling inferior. That's not a reality. It's just a feeling. Be better than your feelings. You'll always have lots of friends if you do. Give her a hug and enjoy the game...
2006-06-14 17:09:53 · answer #3 · answered by hunkeydoorey101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always someone better then you when it comes to things in life, don't be jelous or feel bad about it. Next time you and her play, just tell her, wow you're really good, then ask her if she would teach you some moves or help you get better.
2006-06-14 17:06:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always remember that no matter how you did, as long as you give it your best, you did great! I have always had the same problem as you. But i always remember that I am Me, and you cant change that! Im sure you are a great at whatever you do!
2006-06-14 17:06:48 · answer #5 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
practice alone alot....be greatful she is so good...find something ur better at and do it as well. im sure there is something. as far as feelig inferior....LEARN FROM HER! pple do that with me all the time when i play guitar and sing....they are so jealous of my voice and stuff, but i just do it cuz i suck at basketball, soccer, football....all sports, but i have something im better at then them, you know? well hope you take heed!
2006-06-14 17:05:35 · answer #6 · answered by playaninstrument 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there will always be people better than you at something. You have to accept it and move on. Maybe ask her to teach you some of her skills. Jealousy is the friend's worst enemy...
2006-06-14 17:06:08 · answer #7 · answered by Videodrome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may practice more than you. Someone is always going to be better at something - it's not something to feel bad about. You're probably better than her at something else!!
2006-06-14 17:05:50 · answer #8 · answered by kc_brig 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um..........maybe you have a uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh problem!!!! Duh. get some counsiling
2006-06-14 17:05:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋