2006-06-14 09:58:02 · 3 answers · asked by George T 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
At one point in my life I would have said yes and it was because I wanted no strings attached fun. No matter how many times you tell a single guy that he winds up wanting you for his gf. At least if they are married you know they cant be around all the time.
2006-06-14 10:01:26 · answer #1 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that. It worked for me because I was just coming out of a nasty marriage and scared to get close to anyone. WIth the married guy I could have my cake and eat it too. He loved me, treated me nice, gave me what I needed, and was not in my face all of the time, or bugging me to marry him or promising me the world.
I knew what situation I was in when I went into it. I am not a romantic anymore after my marriage. I knew exactly what I was getting from the start. I was very attracted to him, though, and it worked and helped my self esteem to know that someone like him was interested in someone like me.
Everyone just looks at people like me as homewreckers, but there are more reasons behind it than most people realize. There is a safety zone with a married man because chances are he will not leave his wife and you are safe from having someone in your back pocket all of the time.
2006-06-15 06:47:40 · answer #2 · answered by wyldfyre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dud I hope your wife doesn't read this question.
2006-06-14 10:05:43 · answer #3 · answered by pjthedj247 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋