I have this really big crush on one of my really good friend's brother, (they are twins) but I don't know how to act around him, and I don't know if I'll be betraying my friend if we start going out. He's always laughing at my jokes and stuff, and when he talks to me he looks me right in the eye, but I don't know if he likes me or not!
2006-06-14 09:50:38 · 16 answers · asked by citygirl2011 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Go ahead - take a risk, tell your friend about the crush and flirt with this guy. If not, you will see some other bolder girl swoop in and grab him and that opportunity will be gone forever.
2006-06-14 10:00:58 · answer #1 · answered by Signilda 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Start by telling your friend that you have a problem: that you are afraid that you are falling for his/her brother. Get your friends advice.
This will either cure the problem (the friend can give you all of the inside information you need) or it may cause new problems (depending if the friend has a romantic interest in you that is yet unspoken). In any case you need to be open and honest about your feelings.
2006-06-16 06:45:33 · answer #2 · answered by Richard 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Whoa!!!!! My friend is having the SAME problem. OK now if he look U in the eye it means that he trustees U and 70 out of a hundred he likes LIKES U
2006-06-14 16:58:29 · answer #3 · answered by carolinagirl:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this guy likes you. Talk to your friend first, ask if it would be okay for you and her/his brother to go out. You want your friend's approval in a way so your relationship with your friend doesn't sink.
2006-06-14 16:53:18 · answer #4 · answered by laurennn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is a good friend and you're SURE that he doesn't like you that way, why not talk to him about it and make sure it will not be a betrayal. I'd be very sure on that point above if I were you.
If you're getting eye contact it sounds like there's something there.
2006-06-14 16:57:11 · answer #5 · answered by eewill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he likes you but if you want 2 no 4 sure jusy ask him out 4 drinks or eat and u will see 4 sure but make sure you ask your friend if it's okay 2 date his twin brother
2006-06-14 16:58:05 · answer #6 · answered by SHATOYA T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OKAY WELL JUST PRETEND THAT U DONT LIKE HIM AND JUST ACK UR SLEF AROUND HIM LIKE U WOULD ANY TIME. aND JUST B/C HE LOOKS AT U AND LAUGHS WITH U DOENT MEAN THAT HE ILIKES U BUT Y DONT U ASK HIM IUT. aND IF U BETRAY UR FRIEND IT IS NOT WORTH OIT. wEN I STARTED TO GO OUTY WITH CRUCH I WAS NEVRVOUS. bUT THEN I GOT THE HANG OF IT. i JUST ACTED LIKE HE WAS MY BEST FRIEND. aND NOW WE STILL R GOING OUT. But good luck. If u need any more help just post a question.
2006-06-14 16:56:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hay,how r ya??
mmm i think that u should to think about this problem deeply, and if u discovered that u really really like him,why don't u just ask him to go out alone,and if he agrees with u and the date goes well, this mean it is a start of something.
wish u all the luck.
2006-06-14 16:55:47 · answer #8 · answered by Doaa A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me, you need to talk to your friend, and see what she thinks, assuming it's girl.
If she is all for it, then she can check out, how her brother feels about you, and even help you out with him.
If she isn't, then with them being twins, you may just be out of luck.
So talk to her, then see where you stand.
2006-06-14 16:55:18 · answer #9 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definatly talk to your friend about it. If it would make him uncomfortable, its not worth losing a friend over. But if not, heck, go for it!!
2006-06-14 16:53:27 · answer #10 · answered by goobers*2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋