I know that everytime you have sex, you risk getting pregnant, and I know if I get pregnant, my family would be against it. But, my mom would accept me having a baby after a few months of presuation. I'm 15 1/2 and my niece is 14 and she is having a baby by a 17 year old guy name J. Tell me what your parents would do if you ended up pregnant? And are you now sexually active?
2006-06-14 09:39:08 · 6 answers · asked by Cinnamon Brown 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Well if you have to worry about your parents, then it's probably not a good idea to have sex ( especially at the risk of getting pregnant). 14,15, 16,17 , all too young to have babies. Teenagers dont have any money and you loose your life, No more hanging with friends no partying, and when you have a baby really young you have to watch that baby, Not Your MOM. I think teenagers are too quick to have sex and have babies. I know my mom would have killed me. My sister was 19 when she had her first, my mom flipped out and smacked my sister when she found out she was pregnant. My sister went to live with her boyfriend at the time and they lived in his parents house. Not the ideal place for someone trying to have a baby.
There are no really right times to have a baby, but you should at least have a job, money, a husband, a home to take the baby to. There are a lot of things to consider when having a baby. Just be smart, be careful, use protection. You have plenty of time to have a baby later in life. You'll understand more as you get older. Please take care of yourself.
2006-06-14 10:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by saraidan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doubt you want to hear from me because I am an adult mother. You should try to watch the Maury Show when he is talking to girls who think they want a child. Ohmigosh, do you realize how much work it really is, day in and day out? And, why are you having sex at such a young age? Please find something more meaningful to do with your time -- something that will get you somewhere positive. Perhaps you could volunteer. And, last, you really should talk with your parents or at least mother about this -- they need to know you are sexually active.
2006-06-14 16:46:36 · answer #2 · answered by jboatright57 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about what my parents would say (though I did at your age). I'd worry more about how the hell you'd take care of a baby and make a future for yourself at 16.
It's not easy, and you'd regret how much of your youth you missed out on. Trust me. My friend had her first at 18, and she gave up college, parties, etc. Use condoms, take the pill and wait!
2006-06-14 16:46:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm married...my hubby & I are trying! When I get pregnant, my parents will be ecstatic because they already want to know when we are gonna make them "grandparents"...
2006-06-14 17:33:21 · answer #4 · answered by krazy_gal04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be studying and learning to earn a living in this life!Don't you realize how young you are? This is not about your mother, this is about YOU.
2006-06-14 17:20:21 · answer #5 · answered by Deedee-ro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i got pregnant my parents would kill me they brought me up better than that! yikes i feel sorry for your niece!
2006-06-14 16:45:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋