Being Shallow?

Question

Is it shallow to not be attracted to heavy girls? Alot of people are gonna say that beauty is skin deep and that may be true for some people but is it wrong to just not find obesity attractive? If you know its something you don't want then why should people think that your a bad person for it. Im not saying super skinny is the way but sometimes being too heavy is just really really unhealty and unnatractive.

Answer 1

No it's not shallow. But just be sure you aren't rude about your feelings. Just be respectful. It's not your fault you don't like heavy girls, I don't like people with crooked teeth, but that doesn't mean I can't hang out with them and be friends, we just don't date. That doesn't make me (or you) a bad person.g

Answer 2

It doesn't mean that you are a shallow guy. But if you meet a heavy girl that have a lot of things in common with you, and she's just amazing.... will you let her go cause she's fatty?

Remember that today you can marry a really hot girl but stupid, and tomorrow she can be really fat and still stupid.

While you can marry a fatty who's great to you, and may be tomorrow she lose weight and still great to you.

Always remember beauty is inside, and that's something that no one can change even if you eat more or less.

Answer 3

Let me tell you something, I don't blame you for not liking heavy girls.

I was 240 lbs. and I was so disgusting. My legs rubbed together, butt was so wide, and I was hot all the time. It was not a good thing and I truly don't blame you.

But you know the unattractive thing is treating heavy people bad, I went through it and lost all the big weight because of it.

You are not vain or shallow and you have a right to date any woman you choose and to have her skinny is a plus and hey I would not want a man to pick my fat up to make love to me.

Answer 4

i don't think of that's real that "seems do not remember." seems DO remember, now and again they remember somewhat, now and again they remember a lot. although, I also do not imagine that being bodily interested in someone is an illustration of vanity -- except seems are the in reality element you're searching for. charm is in accordance to a blend of seems, personality, personality, humorousness, likes and dislikes, etc. The question of which of the above concerns better is an quite personal determination, and would replace by the years or maybe from man or woman to man or woman. That stated, i visit wager the lease money that an quite eye-catching human being with a negative personality ultimately will finally end up on my own - no remember how large searching they are.

Answer 5

I don't find it shallow, it's what YOU fond physically attractive, as many guys also like heavy girls, and for me physical attraction is an important part of a relationship

Answer 6

No, you are male, and males are visually stimulated, so when they see someone a little heavier they aren't really turned on. But, you shouldn't let your first impression hold you back from gaining a friendship with that person, and maybe later on, if you are attracted to her personality you can take it further. There is no rule that says you have to give a chubby girl a chance if you aren't attracted to her. But, go with your gut. Looks aren't everything, and in old age, we are all gonna be old and wrinkled anyway, so you need to find someone whose personality fits with yours.

Answer 7

I don't think it's being shallow. That is if you just flat aren't attracted to that. I'm a brunette. Some guys may like only blondes. Therefore, they would initially be attracted to that. HOWEVER, if you came to know someone - cared about them, I'm guessing it wouldn't matter about their size or hair color at that point. You would like them anyway - right?

Answer 8

each to his own, honey, if youre not atleast a little interested by looks are you really going to give either of you the chance to get to know the beauty on the inside, i think you would be wasting both of your time. just remember, each to his own, to try and convince a buddy to leave a girl alone or rag him because his girl is a little heavy by your standards would be very shallow

Answer 9

I agree with you..i only go for guys that i find attractive and i only dated 1 that other pple thought was hot..but turned out to be an *** and the other guys didnt have the looks but they had the personaity..if ur attracted 2 personality, looks shouldnt be a problem.

Answer 10

It's not wrong, but it is kind of shallow to not give someone a chance just because they aren't waifish. Some people are honestly attracted to bigger people, though.