how do i ask a woman to have my baby?

Question

Im almost 30 and i feel the need to have a child by the time im 31.

Answer 1

Where have you been the last 30 years?... ´cause you better know by now...

Answer 2

First of all, why 31? Second of all, are you in a committed relationship that you think will continue? I ask the second for a good reason: if you ask just some random lady to be the mother of your child, you start having problems and break up, then you are stuck with whatever the judge gives you for visitation and child support. She can restrict your access to the child and you will just be another dead-beat to her.

I don't know many women that would say yes to such a thing unless you are willing to be there for everything. It's better to be in a strong, committed relationship to insure proper family ties with the child. Having children isn't easy on the woman and it would be a shame to have a child with someone just because they want it. It has to be best for both of you.

If you are married, then all the better. Then there are ways of talking to your wife to find out what she thinks. It's very complicated, having children and should be done with the child's interest at heart, not just selfish ones.

Answer 3

1.Buy a ring.

2. Woo a woman

3. Marry the woman

4. Make a baby with the woman

Go out and talk to some guys who have babies with women they aren't married to. See how happy they are. You will not have custody. You will be a week-end Dad. You will not have any say in how the house your child lives in is run. Eventually another man wil probably live there and have more influence over your child than you do. Oh yeah, and did I mention child support? Those things all seem a little more crucially life altering than an arbitrary dead-line you've set up for yourself. The child's quality of life should come before your need to meet your own silly deadline.

Answer 4

Traditionally, marriage is a good place to start. What is it that is driving you to father a child by the time you are 31? Tony Randall fathered his first child when he was 70. Kids are a BIG responsibility.

Answer 5

if you love her its not so much of a deal. My Guy and i both have an understanding that within 2-3 years of getting married we're going to start having children.
but if you're just talking about wanting a child, and not a full family (IE you dont want a wife or girlfriend, just a baby) i would reccomend researching artificial insemination, IE paying a woman to carry your child to term, or is it called Pre-birth adoption? either way that would get you the kid without the relationship.

Answer 6

Well, i would tell you to be just as blunt as my crazy father who asked this girl will she have his baby and he told her he didn't want a relationship just a baby. She is actually pregnant with his son now. But since i think that is crazy i think u should ask a woman that you love and is willing to make a life with. An let her know from the beginning your plans is to raise a family

Answer 7

Slow down there pal! Make sure the woman is right and not the time. You don't want to have a baby with some psycho ya just met.

Answer 8

Well if you already have the women. First take her to a nice dinner. Then go home start rubbing her shoulders and making her feel special. Then kiss on her a bit and just wisper in her ear " would u like to have my baby?"

Answer 9

How about the words "Would you please do me the honor of becoming my wife"? Then, after you're married, plan to have as many as you both want. Give your children two parents. There's enough divorces & foster familes in this world. Go against the flow. Become a committed man...committed to his wife and family. This might sound old fashioned, but just because it's old doesn't make it wrong. I've got years of experience in this field. <*)))><

Answer 10

Wow! you're like the male version of a female..wait, does that make sense??!! Anyway I do understand. Find someone who also wants a baby and see if she is interested in Co-parenting. That's what I did. It's working great!