2006-06-14 09:07:40 · 25 answers · asked by Andy S 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well she feels bad about it. I wouldn't bring it up! lol
Since she feels bad about it she learned a lesson from it.
You should think...I'm lucky that she has already been thur that part of life. She'll probably never cheat on you!
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This was before you guys met. So you can't really dwell on it!
2006-06-14 09:10:51 · answer #1 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
If she feels that bad about messing with a married man while she was single, then she will probably be faithful to you when you two are married.
As for what you should think about it: Think that she made a mistake and has learned from it. I know that I learned from my mistake of sleeping with a separated woman. I still feel very guilty about that.
2006-06-14 09:17:35 · answer #2 · answered by my_alias_id 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it doesnt matter what she did or what you did before you were married. What matters is you are married you love each other. Dont dwell on what was work on what is to be. Have a great life and dont worry about the past. That is what it is :the past.
Have a great marriage.
2006-06-14 09:14:48 · answer #3 · answered by Barbara T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't judge her on it because that's the last thing she wants. Just let her know you still love her and that there's nothing to feel bad about. It's in the past and your love for her hasn't changed. This is an awkward situation but just let her know you are still going to be by her side. Hope this helps.
2006-06-14 09:12:06 · answer #4 · answered by peek a boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. She existed long before you entered her life. She had a life and past. She met you...and obviously you got together fine. End of story.
Leave it at that if you 2 are OK. It is your common life you need to focus.
2006-06-14 09:11:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your life started together when you met, not before. Enjoy the time you have together and leave the past where it belongs. What she did before you met had nothing to do with you so don't dwell on it.
2006-06-14 09:18:12 · answer #6 · answered by jane m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did your wife ever tell you about it prior to your marriage? If she did, then that will not be an issue. You should be glad because she didn't hold back anything from you even if it would mean an end to your relationship.
2006-06-14 09:12:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you knew before you married her, you should think nothing of it now.
If you just found out, you should be a little upset that she did not tell you before you married her, unless you never asked.
Besides, she should still be sleeping with a married man now...you. :)
2006-06-14 09:10:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a dam thing now. if you wanted to jump up and be all perfect then you shouldnt have married her. you knew this before you got married? then you do nothing except tell her its the past and just leave it there.
2006-06-14 09:09:46 · answer #9 · answered by chevy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are human and make mistakes. As long as she isn't messing around with anyone now that you are married. Forgive and Forget
2006-06-14 09:33:25 · answer #10 · answered by adkfoaiefnafedw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋