I'm a new comer at a highschool. I do have some people to lunch with but we are not that close as a friend . Sometimes i barely have anyone to talk to. i walk alone from classroom to classroom while others seem to be busy laughing enjoying school. Is it because i'm abit uptight? or what? how can i find a good friend?
I just don't know how to start an interesting conservation between friends. People do talk to me but i just don't find anything to say to them to actually have a conservation. Or maybe i should just focus on study and become a geek ( like i could become geekier!). wait till time brings friends? HELP HELP all u cool people!!!!!!!!!!!
Anyone from Mayo high, by the way?
2006-06-14 08:57:17 · 5 answers · asked by prince charming 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
building a lasting friendship takes time.Do you have any hobby's maybe something that is small enough to take to school and at lunch maybe you could tinker around with it.If you can make it interesting ,you'll be amazed at how many curious people will be at your table asking questions.And out of those people you will begin to build a friendship with at least two of them! And loosen up if you shy away when people talk to you most won't approach you again.Put on your best smile and enjoy life!
2006-06-14 09:14:29 · answer #1 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will HAVE to join some sort of club or sports group. When you're in smaller groups, it's easier to meet other people. When you join, tell people that you are new, and talk with them about something - anything. If you sit in a corner and appear shy, more likely than not the other students won't talk with you. Don't worry, friends will definitely come as you start to become more comfortable and open yourself up a bit.
2006-06-14 09:11:48 · answer #2 · answered by xxtra chocolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always hard when you switch schools. You could try joining clubs or a sport that way you can meet other people and slowly become friends with them. And you should have something in common with them depending on which club or sport you decide to join, which will make it easier to make friends.
2006-06-14 09:03:13 · answer #3 · answered by Hsiao C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, no one can tell you how to make friends, but we can suggest things that might help you out, I used to be shy and would never talk to any one, I went to the same school for six years and then (go figure)my dad decided to get married after being alone for who knows how long, as me and my two sisters were very little when he divorded our mom, but when he remarried and we started the new school, it was either get over being shy and introduce myself to the ones I thought would be real nice friends, so my dear open up and start a conversation
2006-06-14 09:08:12 · answer #4 · answered by misspunki53 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start meeting people-
2006-06-14 09:01:26 · answer #5 · answered by nicegirl187smile 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋