wh do some women think that some guys (me not included) are not worth their time?

Question

this can also be quiite annoying to the fact that some women just cuddle around the populars(me)!

Answer 1

Probably because some guys really aren't worth their time. This isn't necessarily a value judgement, but not everyone is compatible, and if you don't see a certain level of compatability in the first place, then it's not going to do anyone any good to fake it.

Answer 2

Some guys aren't, but appearances can be deceiving and all women could really stand to alter the way in which they decide who is worth their time. Many women, especially in such a rich indulgent culture, have their priorities in the wrong place.

Answer 3

you are included in the catagory of not being worth womens time.
Yes some of us saw the two other questions you asked before deleting them.

Answer 4

To answer this question in four words, I’d have to say;… "Because It's Absolutely True." There are tons of "guys" out there who aren't worth the time of some women. Clearly the same can be said about some women, in regards to the time of some men. That's a fact. But the question is far too vague for me to be able to answer adequately and thoroughly, in the amount of time I have. I'll just give an overview. There are males out there who have yet to concern themselves with anything other than sewing the preverbal male seed. Additionally, there are tons of males out there who have little to offer someone else, other than a wealth of indecision and focusless activity (or inactivity). I've found that women who voice their opinions that some guys aren't worth their time are usually absolutely right, at least half of the time. And the same can probably be said about themselves conversely. The other half of the time, women seem to be at least partially preoccupied with the notion that the person with whom they'll chose to be, ought to be prime in all the ways that fathers and guys in general should aspire to be.

The usefulness in surveying the herd in this way (so-to-speak), lies in a female's ultimate pursuit of support and affirmation through the establishment of relationships and families. For the most part, the women whom are concerned with much more than merely finding sperm for their eggs; will often come up with all sorts of justifications for excluding some men from their respective suitor pools. The crucial judgment that women must make is to decide whether or not their criteria/standards for guys are unreasonable. If you believe that women are significantly more relationship-oriented than are men, then you might agree with the notion that the decision "to be with" or "to be without" is all too important to take lightly.

My most popular pontification at the moment is that the overwhelming majority of men are at least superficially concerned with satisfying the demands of their male physical/sexual attractions/urges. Perhaps the secondary or tertiary goal is to find a girlfriend, or wife. I’m not sure this whole girlfriend/boyfriend thing would even exist if it weren’t for the ideals of women. I’m sorry to make such a harsh judgment, but I truly think men are less concerned with relationships than women; at least during the prime of their male development (age 12-45).

The greater concern in most cases is fundamentally subconscious and physical. If it weren't for these hyper-prevalent male oriented urges, then women might be slightly less critical about the whole guy gauging thing, as they wouldn't have to worry about the inevitability of sex, conception, pregnancy, and motherhood. Tell any sexually active guy that he can be in a relationship as long as he doesn’t engage in sex or anything of the like. Seven times out of ten, he’ll stray (for purposes of sex)even if he values the companionship and love he receives from his partner. Moreover, if he isn't in a relationship and is subject to the same new rules, then he would most likely opt out of a relationship totally, if it meant not having sex as an option. Some will say that "Men Need Sex," which is only kind of true. Men rather, enjoy and sometimes thrive off of sexual desire. For men though, sex is most often not inherently nor consciously connected with emotion. Thus you have the majority of men whom are completely comfortable with the notion of multiple sex partners; in the absence of absolute inconvenience or risk.

I'm only speaking of what I think are the fundamental characteristics of most human beings. For those women out there who are currently satisfied with mere physical connectedness; and are thus not typically concerned with the emotional benefits of a relationship with a guy, I think it’s probably safe to say that at least their needs can be met by most “Average Joe’s.” Most girls and women however are not looking for "average" though. They know (or believe) at least on a subconscious level, that to pursue even the slightest friendly interaction with a guy is to (in a way) initiate a relationship. Girls and women (primarily women) will be as critical as they have to be in order to hedge their personal bet on a guy. For anyone, a relationship is much more than a physical investment; even at the very start.

Answer 5

Because they have seen how they have treated previous women and don't want to waste there time or get hurt

Answer 6

some or most women starting out are stuck up man .that just women at work. us men will never figure it out.

Answer 7

definetly. many women can tell right away who's a waste of their time and who isn't!! we'll judge you first based on appearance, your movements, then how you talk, how you sound, what you say, your vocabulary, manners, it's endless. you're under constant criticism. ;)

Answer 8

because some women are too stuck up for their own good

Answer 9

i hope you're not seriously that self absorbed, because if you are, then you are not worth the time

Answer 10

Cuz they are arrogant and are too full of themselves