The girl I want to be with says she has no feeling for me and she still sees me. She says that she loves someone else but has fights with them all the time. The person treats her bad and calls her names. yet she says that she is in love with them. How do I show her or demenstrate how much I care for her?
2006-06-14 08:43:34 · 6 answers · asked by TonyDFW 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
She is probably insecure. If she's having problems with 2 people, then she's probably just looking for a relationship, but wants a kind of "back up". I think she's stuck. I could be wrong, but if she settles down with one of you, I think the other one is a goner . . .
unless you TRULY agree with me, do NOT believe me on this. i don't know her personally. It's risky to assume, and it could cost you a relationship.
if you truly care for her, then make her feel really special. an average girl loves to be loved. remember that.
2006-06-14 09:14:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you don't want to be her backup. If she doesn't have feelings for you but still comes around to keep you on the hook you need to cut the line. Take control of your life that she doesn't value very much. Instead of being there for her every time she says she needs you have something to do even if it is nothing.
It sounds a little like you are being a wuss. If you want to be with her and she wants to be with some ****** and you just move on and find a new girl.
I assume the DFW in your name means Dallas/ Fort Worth. There are a TON of great chicks there to choose from so don't get down.
2006-06-14 15:14:19 · answer #2 · answered by kuppers2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she considers you a friend, then that is all you are ever going to be to her and it is something you are going to need to accept & move on. People make bad choices in life when if comes to partners, and they have to learn the hard way...but you can't make someone love you the way you love them.
If you care about her, be there for her as the friend she wants you to be and don't push for more...
2006-06-14 08:49:34 · answer #3 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she loves you as a friend. She obviously has some feelings for you. Have you talked to her about why she likes to be treated badly. Maybe it has something to do with her upbringing. Hopefully she will wake up and find someone who treats her with respect and kindness. Maybe even it will be you.
2006-06-18 19:17:28 · answer #4 · answered by cdmandel2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not in love with them. Most people don't know the meaning of the word. In fact love is probably the most abused word/phrase/concept in history.
2006-06-14 08:48:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me bro there is nothing and I mean nothing you can do.Some girls are like that.They like guys who are assholes.Just be you.If she doesn't like that F her!
2006-06-14 08:47:53 · answer #6 · answered by mikehawksbig6303 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋