My girl friend's vagina does not get wet during intercourse?

Question

My girl friend's vagina does not get wet during intercourse. I dont get enough pleasure bcoz of this. We need to use artificial lubricant.
Is it a common problem or very rare?

Answer 1

It is a common problem. Some women just need additional lube. Don't feel bad about it. Maybe try to lick her to orgasm before intercourse.

Answer 2

It's pretty common, I'm a sex therapist in San Antonio, Texas and the best answer is to try more stimulation or forplay before intercourse, a good 10-15 min. of clitoral stimulation, intense kissing, oral sex and if that doesn't make her wet as hell try using lubrication but while you are playing with her-example fingering her or so. That way you will be ready and so will she and things will feel much better. Take your time with this process...it could be that she has never played with herself, let her explore her own body and come get you once she is already ready...hint hint wink wink

Answer 3

Common problem. First question, has she had children? This tends to slow down production of her own lubricant. The more kids she had the less lube she makes. Also, is there proper foreplay involved? She won't get wet unless she is turned on... My fave lube is KY Jelly Original. I have tried many and this is the best and not very expensive.

Answer 4

There is no need to worry it is common in young generation as girls become anxious & so the vaginal secritions are not released. The only thing i can tell you is to make your girlfriend really relaxed & calm and have lots of foreplay.
But if the problem persists she need to get a hormone levle, But dry vagina is commonly seen after age of 40 Yr. Can't tell you more as dont know the age of the patient but hope this will help you.

Take care
Bye

PS: Please do use a condom if you are not using one. you can use a lubrecant with it but only use water based ones like KY jelly as Oil based will break the condom...

Answer 5

Read your question. You say that your girlfriend's vagina does not get wet, so YOU don't get enough pleasure. Try something for your girlfriend: spend some time doing the things SHE needs to get wet. Stimulate her with your hand. Give her oral sex. It's not just about YOUR pleasure. It's about hers, too. Go slowly and be sensitive to what she needs. Remeber, she deserves pleasure just as much as you do.

Answer 6

Try longer foreplay time. If that doesn't work then add lubricant. If it is still a problem seek medical advice. I believe there may be medication. Also I believe there are condoms that have some kind of lubricant.

Answer 7

It's actually pretty common, it doesn't mean she's not stimulated. If you use artificial lubricant, I suggest the brand WET. It works the best.

Answer 8

first of all how old is your girlfriend?has she had any female problems?i am almost 50 & am going through menopause & me & my husband have a hard time with sex.i am 8 years older than him,but use to it was so wet it was unbelieveable. ha!they say i need hormones but wont prescribe them to me because i smoke.but believe me it is just as difficult if not more for me than it is him.i feel i am a failure to him,but he does not cheat (right now anyway) i hope he never does.i love him& still desire him,but my body has changed & i have no control over it. they say the mind is the greatest sex organ. maybe your girlfriend has a medical problem. good luck,P.S. maybe youneed more foreplay!!!!

Answer 9

I think it is a common problem, maybe try and spend more time with the four play that will usally make a huge difference with the amount of lube she produces. Good Luck

Answer 10

She's not in the mood enough, get her a vibrator, and use it with her. It will work wonders, unless she has a medical condition, then she needs to go to the doctor. Also if she is on birth control pills, they could be preventing her from getting fully into it, this happened to me. I got off the birth control and that all changed.