I have bad thoughts about my best friend all the time? Is this bad?
2006-06-14 08:38:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She feels the same way BUT we are both married!
2006-06-14 08:47:35 · update #1
no you might just be going through a phase
2006-06-14 08:41:40 · answer #1 · answered by cute boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A very distinguished author once wrote that if u hav 2 ask it is probably 'cause ur conscience is telling u that it is wrong! Obviuosly, there r many schools of tho't on the issue & @ the risk of sounding like a real Bible freak I'd say let's see what the "road map" 4 rite living says.& in the Book of Leviticus 18:22, It says that such acts r an abomination un2 the Lord.Now like any other advise, u r @ liberty 2 accept/reject this 1 but u now know what the "Road Map" 4 rite living says! @ u said it luv, u hav "bad" tho'ts about ur friend. It is bad 2 wanna do that, against the advise of God!
2006-06-14 16:14:56 · answer #2 · answered by browneyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! If you are attracted to somebody... same sex or not... it's just one of those things. Being she's your best friend, it might be a tough call whether or not to tell her.. or even make a move with her... you'd have to weigh your options and the pro's and con's.. if she is your best friend and she's NOT attracted to you in that way.. then she'll tell you as much and you can talk about it. If she is.. bonus! Maybe a bottle or two of wine might help the mood and the chat... good luck... whatever you decide, I hope it works!
2006-06-14 15:44:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i don't think its wrong, just because you are married it doesn't mean that you can't find another person attractive even if it is your female friend and your emotions for her run allot deeper than just being physical hence you thinking about her alot..as much as i hate labels if i were to label you i would say that you were Bi-curious....and don't worry because allot of straight women can find another woman's body sexually attractive...
2006-06-16 03:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by BOO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad? as in evil? No I don't think so. We have come to a point in social evolution where we know that a person cannot help what sexual perferences they may have. What would be bad is taking action that hurts others.
2006-06-14 15:44:11 · answer #5 · answered by nonobadpony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess those kind of women has a lesbian tendencies. Well, I guess as long as you are not acting it out. There is nothing wrong with it.
2006-06-14 15:42:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's perfectly normal I've done the same thing and i think that most other women have also!
2006-06-14 15:44:35 · answer #7 · answered by MelC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope... just means you are probably bi-sexual. Nothing wrong with that at all. You are just being who you are. Enjoy your fantasies ;)
2006-06-14 15:42:07 · answer #8 · answered by Uncle Tim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong as long as you don't act on them. Unless you let your husbands watch then go for it.
2006-06-14 15:55:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a free country and you can feel or do anything you feel...as long as it is within the law that is....have fun, be young, be foolish, be happy...
2006-06-14 15:41:44 · answer #10 · answered by carolinayaya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋