Loss of sex drive? Only serious answers please.?

Question

I am a 26 year old woman. And I do not want to have sex. I think about it sometimes but I only have sex when I start feeling bad for my boyfriend because it has been like 2 months. It is not enjoyable for me anymore. Is this normal? Is there something I can do to increase my sex drive?

Answer 1

Many women go through this more than you know! I actually went through the same thing. First of all, it could be a number of things that can trigger this, stress at home or work,is one factor, having a job, kids, house cleaning, cooking dinner, trying to pay bills, it all adds up, so having sex to some women is more of a chore than anything else. You need to ask if your boyfriend is turning you on? Do you need to try different positions? Different places? Is he Romantic? What makes you get in the mood, he would probably would like to know that. Also some women don't feel sexy enough or don't like the way their bodies are so that may be another factor, but i would talk to your boyfriend as he may be able to help, communication is one key factor in a relationship, he needs to know that you need to be pleased in bed not just him. also your diet could also be another factor, be sure you are eating properly and get the recommended amount of excercise. so i would try new and different things, my husband and i have been together for 13 years and i ended up being the same way until i realized what turned me on and i learned i like it rough and i enoyed it when he spanked me and pulled my hair. You never know what will work with you until you have tried it. Hope this helps Good Luck!

Answer 2

I think it is kind of you to worry about him, but you shouldn't have sex just because you feel bad. You should want it as much as he does, which I understand, is the problem.

I don't think it's really that uncommon for women of your age (mine too, really) to be uninterested in sex. A woman's peak is in her 30s. That doesn't mean that every woman our age will not want sex and every woman in her 30s will. It's just an average. Each person is different. As one answer said, you could be stressed out from a number of things. Maybe there isn't enough excitement in your relationship or in the bedroom for you. Try different things. Talk to him and tell him how you feel. If he loves you and cares, he'll do what he can to help make things good for both of you.

On the other hand, it could be a medical condition. Sometimes, hormonal imbalances can cause women to be uninterested. You are probably too young to have had an ovary removed or any other reproductive organ, but that can also cause loss of libido. Visit your OB/GYN if you are truly concerned and have everything looked over. There is always Viagra for women if you are open for such suggestions.

I wish you the best of luck!

Answer 3

Well im sorry to hear that,i do know what it fills like on the other side,my girlfriend and go thru that and what i find works is some exsitment something diffrent to get the spark going again,in my shoes its hard because im thinking she lost intrest or thers somebody else,try to let him know that hes the only one for you.And on not filling like the sex i hope it can happen with you again,their are meds that sometimes can work.Well let me know how it goes,maybe it will work for me also.

Answer 4

first of all attempt distinct position bypass to a sex keep browse round n purchase some toys have a romantic evening have candles round plant existence purchase her a impressive underclothes for her to placed on on your romantic day yet having sex each and every time you spot one yet another isn't sturdy because it kills the choose of having sex with an similar man or woman so attempt having it two times a week..and the volume one component to do is foreplay

Answer 5

Dear,I suppose that there's nothing too wrong with you..Just consult with a specialist,and don't be shy or emberassed..talk straight.Maybe you have some "deep" psychological trace..and it's just a matter of time and adequate approach..Good luck!