If you are walking in the mall or lets say anywhere and some guy or guys keep staring at you,which is making you feel very uncomfortable,What would you say to him to make him stop.Not to be rude nor ghetoo,something which is lady like.
2006-06-14 08:21:30 · 21 answers · asked by ? 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I MUST AGREE WITH THE 2nd answer,Thanks
2006-06-14 08:24:45 · update #1
Why say anything? A true lady just keeps on walking, and ignores them, holding herself above rude behavior such as staring. Just walk away.
Unless these guys are following you or harassing you. In that case, you get a security guard.
2006-06-14 08:23:44 · answer #1 · answered by vanwoman06 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi. People look at things that are pretty. You are pretty so people will stare. Its natural that the more beautiful you are the more longer the stare will be. Its a compliment if one stare but there is a very thin line to the staring time frame. Being embressed, annoyed and or scared due to the time the staring starts and ends is quite small. If they start following, then its a issue, if they get annoying then its a issue other then that walk away and dont say anything because saying anything will only worsen the issue.
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2006-06-15 11:30:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also agree with 'vanwoman', you should just hold your head up high and walk with confidence, you never know those guys could just fancy you, but not have the nerve to tell you directly.
(I do know that if you walk with your head down, your shoulders hunched, not looking like you know where you are going, some people will see you as a victim, walking with your head up and shoulders back makes people look at you and think, that's a confident person).
2006-06-14 18:33:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just ignore them or if you think its unsafe tell a guard or police to watch out for you.
I know above asked, but why is this Craig guy after you? He's posted more than a dozen questions for you. You need to tell him to leave you alone!
2006-06-14 21:49:53 · answer #4 · answered by FallOutGirl13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your looks are alright and you are not wearing something ridiculous or outrages, ignore the person. Most likely he does not have a job and has nothing better to do. If the person bothers you, get security.
2006-06-14 15:30:20 · answer #5 · answered by mini golf blonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with number 2 also, or tell them to take a picture it'll last longer.ha! Just a lil humor.
2006-06-14 15:27:21 · answer #6 · answered by mccamel1666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Click on Contact Chiken Boy and write him a message then send it, then that guy will stop staring at you. And yes, that's my email address.
2006-06-14 21:08:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happened to me yesterday! only i was in Giant Eagle and they kept folowing me and my friend around and we kept walking around the store. Finally, they ended up walking past and saying hi to us. we did not say anything and they left us alone! but i guess if they don't say anything to you then you should hide in the ladies room if you feel uncomfortable. I enjoy it.
2006-06-14 15:27:15 · answer #8 · answered by dalicious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to him and wisper in his ear, Stop staring at me, you're making me very uncomfortable and that's not right."
2006-06-14 15:25:26 · answer #9 · answered by tonyintoronto@rogers.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay no attention to them. If they are staring and you continue to look back to see if they are staring them perhaps you are giving them the message that it is okay.
2006-06-14 15:28:50 · answer #10 · answered by Jade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋