2006-06-14 08:06:05 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
dont stay around to be hurt by this person who hurt you, walk away and find a new life, believe me you will get over it. I have been in this situation too, and stayed around for too long and have only got treated like sh** because of it, get out when you can, and hold your head up high, they'll be the loser in the end, best of luck
2006-06-14 09:47:59 · answer #1 · answered by fefe 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Although there may be instances that immediate retaliation would be sweet revenge, I have found the doing nothing has generally been the best way to get even...reason being, lets say someone cheats on me...that would break my heart...so how does one get even...you do the same thing and break their heart, but that only makes you as wrong as them and I don't want to ever lower my standards to such a level...so whats as painful, that would be walking away and doing nothing....believe that this was not the right person and that person is still out there waiting for you..not a cheater...but you with your integrity in tact..my sorrow of betrayal turns into joy of finding a better person than they and they are without, seeking someone else who will accept such a flawed character of a person. That sounds like revenge in itself...they become a victim of their own self created circumstance and yet you benefit from it.
2006-06-14 15:24:38 · answer #2 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, getting even/revenge is not as sweet as you think it might be. If you have been betrayed by someone with no hope of forgiveness, then the best possible thing to do is let it go, and move on with your life. That person might suffer more knowing that whatever they did was enough to tear you away from them forever. Don't hang onto anger or hurt too long, life is too short. Surround yourself with people that make you feel good. Don't waste your time with those that don't. Good Luck!
2006-06-14 15:16:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moving on, and learning from it all. Revenge hurts both parties involved, and you do not feel better after either.
The best revenge is to live well and treat others as you would want to be treated. That other person no longer exsit, Just be happy
2006-06-14 15:18:21 · answer #4 · answered by LORI W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to forgive the person from the heart and hand over the matter to God in prayer.
2006-06-14 15:24:17 · answer #5 · answered by Uncle D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do is wait for a situation to come along that puts you in a better position than they are and you will feel the sweet taste of victory!..=)
2006-06-14 15:10:43 · answer #6 · answered by *toona* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a success of your own life and forget them.
Trying to get even with someone just proves that they still have power over you.
2006-06-14 18:13:46 · answer #7 · answered by charleymac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the best you you can be.
If you are overweight, get in shape. If you have a bad job, go to school and get an education. Make you number one.
This will make them so mad.
Take Care
2006-06-14 15:16:43 · answer #8 · answered by javarick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend taught me "best revenge is to live well". but really no one and I DO mean NO ONE is important enough for you to want to 'get even' with. Let it go - life is waaayyyyy much happier when you can do that... and it gives you the sense of power. :-)
2006-06-14 15:48:38 · answer #9 · answered by Hope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some answers are funny yeah but at the end of the day is it worth you going to the bother, hold your head high and forget about it, you are the better person
shell
2006-06-14 15:29:01 · answer #10 · answered by cute sexy little feet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋