What would you do if you found out you were pregant at age 14? Would you actually tell your mom ?

Answer 1

Yes, you should tell your mom so she can help you. You may get some kind of wrath, but you deserve it. You should have been more careful. Condoms are very cheap compared to what's ahead for you.

Answer 2

What are the alternatives? You can always run away and live on the streets and eat out of trash cans or if your are lucky find a shelter and get to wear someones old underwear. You'd also be considered a runaway at that point and endangering a child (the baby once it's born) and most likely, it will be taken from you because you can't take care of it. There is also a higher risk to having a child with special needs because of that age.

Does that sound better then telling your mom?

Answer 3

She's gonna find out soon enough anyway, so putting it off only makes things worse. Yes, I'd definitely tell my Mom. It's a serious issue, and often it is easier for people to get a perspective from an outside party, so they can see the "big picture".

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Answer 4

I'm sorry you are going through that. My mom was pregnant at 14 and again at 15. She kept us both, but her parents ended up doing most of the work! It's hard that young but you made the mistake of getting pregnant you need to tell your mom and own up to your responsibilities. DO NOT HAVE AN ABORTION! You need to give it up for adoption and let a family that can't have children have it. You are too young to have a child! You will have a hard life trust me!

Answer 5

Tell your mom, she may be upset, but she'll be glad you were honest. And don't get an abortion, go through with the pregnancy, and if you decide you don't want the baby, put it up for adoption. Why deprive your child of having life just because you made a poor decision?

Answer 6

tell her so then she could help you through this tough journey, she should know about it b/c she went through the same thing maybe at the same age & maybe not. i'm sure your mom would be with you 100% of the time. & hopefully your guy will too... but don't get an abortion if you don't think you can handle it at least try to let someone adopt the baby.

Answer 7

YES!!

1-800-848-5683 National Pregnancy Hot Line can hook you up with a Pregnancy Resource Center in your area. they have counselors (for all ages of people), can help with school, maternity homes & adoption.

This is your mother's grandchild - it may be your body but it's not your life - the life belongs to the baby & it is not just your baby - it belongs to the father too
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The baby is a living baby now! a real live person! let it live! if you are old enought to get pregnant you are old enough to have a baby - you might consider adoption - please please remember abortion can do lifelong damage to your physically, emotionally, and mentally - for instance your parents would see the person who killed thier grandchild and the father of the baby would see the person who killed his child and when yu have other children & they find out they will wonder if you will kill them too

Answer 8

sweetie i was 16 and the best thing i did was tell my mom, you being so young you are considered high risk and could have many problems, you need to sit down and tell your mom as soon as possible. I thank God i told my mom it was because i told her i didnt have my baby too early, i went into labor and if i hadnt have told my m0m i wouldnt have known what to do. Go to your mom the damage is done and you cant hide it now.

Answer 9

yes i would tell my mom if i found out i was pregnant at age 14. that would be the first thing i did.

Answer 10

yes the best thing is truth fear is not a good thing parents may be angry but not at what you may think having a child young is hard and takes alot of childhood away from the new mom but it is possible having your mom to help you through this time would be an asset for you