2006-06-14 07:56:48 · 17 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
read the question before this and youmight understand more please
2006-06-14 08:02:12 · update #1
i have but he gets really pissed everytime i try to talk to him
2006-06-14 08:03:07 · update #2
oh she knows aout me she also has a man at home and she never says he to him wehen im in there with him but when he goes with someone else she will tlak to him
2006-06-14 08:14:55 · update #3
well if i knew someone who worked at walmart neighborhood market in orlando that would help alot
2006-06-14 08:37:15 · update #4
Firstly, if you "suspect" then no do not approach her.
If you "know" for a fact then you should still not approach her... and he is why...
*IF* your husband is cheating, HE is the bad guy... HE is the one who is hurting you, HE is the one who is disrespecting you. Yes she is involved (IF he is cheating) and yeah sure you should be pissed at her and all, but she is not the problem, your husband is... and he is the only one you should take issue with.
Tawny
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ADDING : If you talked to your man and he is getting pissed... then you need to stop talking to him about it, and either get proof or let it go. IF he is NOT cheating and you keep pushing him, your insecurities and lack of trust will drive him to either leave you, or have the affair you think he is having anyway.
You should have proof 100% (not hearsay) before you continue on with this.....
2006-06-14 08:27:13 · answer #1 · answered by Tawny Amber 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you suspect your husband then you really need to take it up with your husband. Look for clues and proof of infidelity. There's always a paper trail.
If you approach the girl and she's done nothing wrong, you put yourself in the position of being the crazy bosses wife. In your husband's eye's, become the untrusting wife.
Find proof, then confront your husband. Then look to resolve things one way or another.
2006-06-14 15:39:32 · answer #2 · answered by -J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont lower your self.... listen this is what i did...
find another girl, it usually works bette that works with him...
and aproche her.. do the crying and desperate wife role.. not the sphyco.. just you know tell her
I would like to talk to you woman to woman Look i think almost sure my hubby and (what ever that skank's name is) have something to do, but when I confronted him he said NO..
im not trying to make him stay with me against hes will,, i just don t want to be any bodys fool..please if you know anything tell me, i dont want them to make a fool out of me and i think you should understand where i stand, I am not trying to bring my personal problems and make them youres but honestly all i need is the truth,,
She will tell you, unless shes her friend but look find out everything you must know about this other "girl" .. and once you know it is true, Tell her.."you want him, take him, youll be doing me a favor," ( i know it will hurt and brake your heart, but it will hurt him more to see how you dont give a dam, rather than c u in tears fighting for him....
2006-06-14 15:10:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you suspect something doesn't mean you should go and confront some woman you don't even know. You should talk to your husband about your feelings and what you think is going on and ask him to be honest with you.
2006-06-14 15:02:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Resolve the issue with your husband first. I'd imagine it's tempting to go straight to the girl, but you're going to make yourself look foolish, particularly if you only suspect and aren't sure.
2006-06-14 15:00:43 · answer #5 · answered by circe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were in your shoes i wouldn't approach her. i would drop him, especially if he gets mad with you when you are simply asking a question. she probably knows nothing about you and why get her involved if he hasnt even told her the whole story. 9 times out of 10 when a women really senses her man is cheating. he is!! esp. when you are finding clues that he is cheating. i wouldnt put up with crap like that.
2006-06-14 15:11:42 · answer #6 · answered by arealredbone1024 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl at your husbands work is not the one that vowed to your mar rage your husband did. You need to confront him and if he is not trusting then you need to leave you can not have a successful marriage with someone that lies to you.,
2006-06-14 15:05:36 · answer #7 · answered by 4X4 Woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire a private investigator to follow your husband. This way you'll also have evidence for the divorce, and you won't look foolish if your wrong.
2006-06-14 15:07:41 · answer #8 · answered by ebenevides 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where is your respect and pride frist where the communication and where the wedding vow you need time to re group step back if he is disrespect you frist you are not a door mat no one wipe their feet on you . pick your self up time out good luck
2006-06-14 15:26:44 · answer #9 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO...you should approach your husband. Besides it would suck to get into trouble with police over what may be innocent friendship.
2006-06-14 15:01:52 · answer #10 · answered by couriousinms 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋