ok iv sorta asked this q already but i need more answers.
rite, the guy i've loved for a year, i was tokin to him on IM and i told him i liked him and he said that one of his best friends really likes me, and that he likes someone else.
now the other guy is tryin to ask me out.
how do i get the guy i love to love me? do i give up?! keep tellin him i love him? pleease answer!
2006-06-14 07:49:20 · 5 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
obviously iv met him
2006-06-14 07:54:18 · update #1
Well, Why would you want to force someone to love you? If you did that they would not truly love you. They would just be saying they are to keep you at bay as you would call it. Unfortunately it is in his mind that he likes someone else so you are not going to be able to change his feelings. His best friend, I say go for it or do whatever will make you happy. Someone should never sell themselves short when it comes to happiness. NO ONE SHOULD EVER!!!!!!! Good Luck!!!!!!
2006-06-15 10:50:39 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You can't force feelings nor can you make someone want you. I'm sorry to say but i guess the best thing to do is move on. He's made it pretty clear that he's interested in someone else and even though you may not be interested in his best friend just let him know that you only see him as a friend. Feelings are hard to ignore especially if it's love. It can't be forced upon you can only hope that the person feels the same way. As hard as it may be just move on and find someone that can love you back.
* Happiness keeps You Sweet, Trials keep You Strong, Sorrows keep You Human, Failures keeps You Humble, Success keeps You Glowing, But Only God keeps You Going! *
Good luck gurly!
2006-06-14 15:01:05 · answer #2 · answered by Mia A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't really make someone love you, and you can't manipulate other people's feelings. I know it sucks, but that's life. If this other guy really likes you, why not give it a try with him? You can't always get people to think the same way you do. Your feelings for this guy may never go away, but they will fade over time, and you plenty of time to love. Good Luck!
2006-06-14 14:54:39 · answer #3 · answered by sadie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i would give up, u cant make no one love you. If you do it isnt the same but its liek being forced into something. You want someone who loves you for you no matter what unconditio;nally. If u have to make someone love you it aint love
2006-06-14 15:02:13 · answer #4 · answered by Im da Example 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u a web freak? have u ever met the guy?
2006-06-14 14:53:16 · answer #5 · answered by Piffle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋