my mom and my bf mom are great friends and they want me and him to still be bf and gf he dose to but i dont want to and my mom wont listen and after all the carzy stuff his done to me i want to run away but no matter where i go hhis on my back
what should i do
2006-06-14 07:45:38 · 13 answers · asked by Atlanta Beauty 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You tell your mom and your boyfriends mom and your boyfriend that you have the right to decide for yourself who you want to be joined to and no one has the right to decide for you. Love is a personal thing between two people and no third party ever helps. You tell your ex boyfriend that he is driving you away by pestering you and if he really wants you, he should give you some space.
2006-06-14 07:59:42 · answer #1 · answered by tellerscosmos 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to your guns and simply let them all know that no matter what they say or do, there is no way that you will be his gf again, the love is gone and once that is gone, there is nothing more that can be done. Sit with your mom, one on one, with no interruptions and explain to her, that if she really wants what is best for you as her daughter, then to stop making you feel like she is more of a good friend to your ex-boyfriend's mother, than a mother to you... tell her that a mother is suppose to also be a friend to a daughter and she is not doing that right now... Explain to her how she is not only hurting you but she is also disappointing you as a mother and you really felt things were not like that between you too... make her feel guilty...
2006-06-14 14:50:39 · answer #2 · answered by Snowwhite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl really i know that people say you have to listen to your mom no matter what....But if you dont want to date this guy then dont..this is your life your happiness your mom would just have to understand that....GOOD LUCK!
2006-06-14 14:54:23 · answer #3 · answered by GummyBear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom all the crazy stuff he does to you like you mentioned. Dont let anyone pressure you into beign with someone you don't want to be with.
2006-06-14 14:53:07 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only person that you have to make happy is you. If you are not happy with your boyfriend tell him exactly what you find offensive. If he doesn't change his ways say BYE BYE! Be sure to let both mothers know why.
2006-06-14 14:52:01 · answer #5 · answered by older woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow, ok, so your mom and his mom and he want to him to date you but you dont?
I relaly have no idea but maybe have a talk with this guy and work something out!?
Gosh, good luck!
2006-06-14 14:47:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur mon must be out of her mind if she don't trust u. u gots to tell her that the boy is very dangerous! he hits u and demands u to take off ur clothes. if u can't tell ur mom won't listen, tell another adult.
2006-06-21 14:11:22 · answer #7 · answered by girliegurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your just gonna have to break it down to everyone, especially him that you don't feel the same way about him as he feels about you.
2006-06-14 14:48:26 · answer #8 · answered by perfecttenn86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell your mom that you don't want to be boyfriend & girlfriend with him. if she ignores you than tell your boyfriend that you are going to breakup with him.
2006-06-21 14:10:44 · answer #9 · answered by mike s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thought your mom was dead ? thats what you said in your other question.
2006-06-15 11:09:20 · answer #10 · answered by vasqdd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋