we have been togher for 2years.i have just losed my dad and my boyfriend was very close to my dad.the hit start 3moths ago when my dad die
2006-06-14 07:42:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Girl, get the heck out of that relationship, once they start,they usually don't stop, and there is absolutely NO excuse for him hitting you! it don't matter if you hit him back either, you seem to be in a unhealthy relationshipat the moment, he may need counselling as he is taking his mourning and frustrations out on you and that is a NO NO. he needs to deal with this first before you two go any further in this relationship, if he is not willing to do that then i would be saying Good-bye. I am sure your dad would want the very best for you, and i don't think he would like the idea of some one beating on his girl! He knows what is going on! Good luck !
2006-06-14 08:30:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Get out of this relationship. In most cases if they start hitting you they are not gonna stop and it will only get worse. You are making excuses for him, too. It is never right for a man to hit a woman, ever. You two are heading down a bad path. One or the other of you are gonna end up badly hurt, in jail for domestic violence or dead. If you guys are not willing to seek therapy or anger management then you need to break up with this guy. You don't need to be hit and you don't need to hit back. I bet when you hit back it makes you feel really bad and why put yourself in a situation like this? I am sorry to hear about your dad. I too lost my father and I know you are going through a rough time. You need to time to heal from the loss of your father and you cannot properly do that if you are focused on this violence issue. If you are not careful your problems are going to pile up and come crashing down on you all at once. Deal with one thing at a time and that means you may have to end this relationship to do that. This is not healthy and it will only get worse. Good luck and God bless.
2006-06-14 08:16:42 · answer #2 · answered by whatshername 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your are making excuses for your boyfriend to hit you hun, there is no reason in the world that should ever justify that. You need to tell him that you love him but you want to be part of a healthy relationship and lately is has been going down-hill, you can't handle the emotional and physical stress that he is putting onto you. You know that he is hurt about your father's death but he needs to understand that hurting you won't help anything, and you really shouldn't be hitting him either
2006-06-14 07:46:32 · answer #3 · answered by pdanielleh 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is not a good situation, dump him! I don't know if he hits u and u hit him back playfully or roughlly, but this situation can become abusive not just becuz of the depress your boyfriend has bcuz u guys wiil start hitting each other more espicially your boyfriend and then ure heart will just break.
2006-06-14 07:50:08 · answer #4 · answered by Doc H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you might be one of those women who needs a good slap every once in awhile now go tell him your sorry for telling everyone how bad you are and wait for the next slap
2006-06-14 07:53:53 · answer #5 · answered by kathy g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not stay with your boyfriend.
2006-06-14 08:26:23 · answer #6 · answered by kah1975 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋