My ex is having my baby what should i do?

Answer 1

Be a good father and support the babay don't be a dead beat dad.

Answer 2

If you're still pretty young and you havent told your parents, you need to tell them as soon as possible. After that you need to comprimise with your ex about how the baby will be raised. Suggesting you see your child every once and a while because nothing hurts more than not knowing where one of your parents are. If you don't want to be a part of the baby's life then you need to rethink. It's your child. If your ex doesn't want you te be a part of the baby's life, try and talk to her about wanting the baby to know who its father is, but if it doesnt work, try and respect her wishes because she is the one carrying the baby. But only time will tell because she can change her mind at any moment.

Answer 3

well, i think u should except the baby. not sayin ur not,but you should be very supportive towards the decision she makes. but alos let her know how u feel, if ur ready for this or not. cause it wont help at all if ur mean too her about her decision itll just make matters for u worst. and just because u are havin a baby doesnt mean you too have too be a couple again but it would be great if u set asides yall differences an try too work it out but if not still be supportive, go with her too some of her dr.s appt. too see ur baby an ask her how shes doin once in awhile cause trust me thru a time like dis an the different cahnges us as women go through alot of emotionally stress good an bad and if we stress den the baby feels da stress also an its not good for us. well i wish u luck sweety.

Answer 4

Consider that you have divorced your wife, not your child. Accept your responsibility as a father, and be a good provider. Children do not ask to be born, and the best thing that will happen to you will be the love of your child. Sometime in the future when you see that without your contribution as a parent this child may have never had a chance, it is then you will know, you have loved yourself and him/her. Hope this helps and listen to your heart!! Forgive and attempt an amicable relationship with the ex-spouse. Good luck and take the high road.

Answer 5

Do not get back together with them for the child's sake. That will only lead to internal conflict and resentment for both you and your ex. It is also better for the child to see you two apart as mature, adult friends than together with childish spite and anger between you.

Be prepared to pay child support, and do not run from it. Do not be walked on by your ex, but do not be unreasonable.

This child is a part of you, and hopefully will be carying your story on after you are gone. Kids teach us a lot about ourselves, and not all of it is pleasant knowledge. Take this gift you are given, learn about yourself and about life by watching, positively influencing, and taking part in it from the very beginning.

I have 5 kids, 3 of them are with exes. I had my first one when I was 19. My wallet feels the pain, I have made no end of mistakes, but I am thankful every day for what I have learned and who the experience has made me into over the last 13 years.

Answer 6

No matter what be a part of your childs life.... If you and your ex can't work things out don't worry about it, just be a good dad and when the time come make the child understand that even though you and your ex may not be together that you still love them very much and that both of you will always be there for him or her......

Answer 7

Prepare to be a father. Figure it out. You are going to need a good job, you are going to have to support this kid for the next 18 years, or more, so get used to the idea.

Find a way to get along with your "x" in the best interest of the kid. Spend as much time with the child, and too soon, young adult as you can, your the Father, this is a really big deal. This is for the rest of your life, and it's going to be rough, but you have to, do it. There are no other options. Good luck man.

Answer 8

You need to support her in her decision to not abort!
Be there for her, and be there for the child.
If you don't want anything to do with the baby, be ready to pay child support, or maybe bring up the option of adoption?
I just hope you make the right decision for both of you!
Good luck!

Answer 9

Be the kind of father you would want to have . It is your child so what does it matter if she is your ex ?! Please please please dont be another dead beat dad . If you dont want anything and you are absolutly certain that you will NEVER want to be part of the babys life tell her . Sign off all rights immedialitly . It will be your loss and I am sure 5 , 10 , 20 years from now you will wonder and it will be too late !

Answer 10

Be responsible and provide for the child. Remember the relationship w/you and your child is worth more than anything in the world. Don't disappoint your child. The child didn't ask to be here or for you and the mom to be parents, so show that child love and that you can be a great dad. Good luck to you.

Answer 11

i have raised a son from the time he was 3 and i am the only father he knows at the age 12. my advice to u is either decide if you want to be in his life and take care of your responsibilities or w8 til later in life kicking urself in the *** not having any recollections of ur kid growing up. if u can't get along with your ex is one thing but a kid is innocent.