Well iv been with my baby's daddy for 4 years and I've only been with 2 guys my whole life. I'm (21) should I settle down with him? or will I regret not having lived a little? I also was never a partier as a teen.
2006-06-14 07:21:46 · 11 answers · asked by tkay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i would stay where i was at if you are in a good healthy relation ship meaning he don't beat on you put you down in any way and he is working to support you and his kids then you need to stay where you are cause men like that are hard to find and you know if you leave you might regret that. i know i do sometimes don't get me wrong i am married to a great man and he is better then what i left behind but i still regret leaving one of my ex's so the best thing to do is just stay where you are if you are happy if you are unhappy then i guess the choice is yours.
2006-06-14 07:30:48 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he treats you good and your happy you should stay with him. I understand your young but you did make some very mature decisions in having a baby and you owe it to that baby to keep the family together. You weren't much of a partier when you were younger and now probably cant party too hard because you have a kid. Dont think the grass is greener. You might find out its not.
2006-06-14 14:35:50 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to be settling down ESPECIALLY if you are having any doubts at all. You have your whole life ahead of you...live a little and see what else is out there. It would be worse, for you and your child to get married to this guy and then discover in 3-4 years when you have really LEARNED about yourself that he is not "the one"
2006-06-14 14:25:07 · answer #3 · answered by cstarz93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a child now so unfortunately for you, you don't get to put yourself first anymore. If this man is good to you and you are happy, stay put. You can enrich your life by getting into new hobbies that you enjoy so that way you don't feel so constricted. Partying's fun, but sounds like the party's over for you. Drugs and alcohol don't always make for a fun time either so just remember that. You're a parent now and you should set a good example.
2006-06-14 14:27:48 · answer #4 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Settle down, you can party with your man. What do you mean by 'lived a little'? Does that mean sleeping around? or getting stupid drunk and talking about idiotic things with your friends? Either way, you are much better off with your baby's dad...
2006-06-14 14:26:56 · answer #5 · answered by barter256 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can tell u is that u have to make that choice. my husband is the only guy i have ever been with. plus i never party or anything like that. growing up i was a goodies too shoes. a daddy's girl/ mommy's girl
2006-06-14 18:18:53 · answer #6 · answered by amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've lived more than most people.Stay with the Father. It's the right thing to do. The grass isn't always greener...
2006-06-14 14:24:27 · answer #7 · answered by amylr620 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
figure this out ive been married 17 years. when we started to go down hill we spiced it up. So spice it up. then many years passed and she decided to cheat on me. so the question is, is the grass greener id say no unless your being abused. follow your gut feelings it helps.
2006-06-14 14:29:40 · answer #8 · answered by Funny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you are happy with him you should just enjoy it. Don't worry about what you might have missed out on. Look at the great things you have.
2006-06-14 14:24:49 · answer #9 · answered by becca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should stay because its hard to make it on your own puls if you love him its always the thing to do
2006-06-14 14:26:44 · answer #10 · answered by gaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋