2006-06-14 07:08:45 · 31 answers · asked by ?Whiskey Girl? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yeah because if you really care you should tell him and ge it over with.
2006-06-14 07:10:11 · answer #1 · answered by kenisha_ma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a really hard question. Was the kiss meaninful or something petty? Was it short (less than 3 seconds or sort) or a long kiss (like a full session make out). Those factors are pretty crucial. Were you just goofing around or were you two actually making out? If you don't tell him, and he finds out then he won't trust you and nothing will be the same. If you do tell him, he might get mad. He still might not even trust you. Just go with your gut. If you think it's best to keep it to yourself, don't tell him (make sure you tell his friend not to say anythign either!). But, if you feel that it's best to tell him, tell him.
2006-06-14 14:12:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!
Although you may feel guilty for kissing you're boyfriend's best friend don't tell. As long as you know that it was a once in a lifetime thing and that it will NEVER happen again.
Don't tell even if you think he deserves to know.
You telling him might make you feel better for the moment, but he is going to feel really hurt. It would be selfish for you to tell just because you feel guilty.
He will feel hurt, he will lose trust in you, and it will be hard for you to go back to where are are in your relationship.
Now, this does not mean you have free license to go and kiss other people because you aren't going to tell him. If you are in a committed relationship, you shouldn't be kissing or doing anything else with other people.
So bottom line, don't tell.
2006-06-14 14:13:49 · answer #3 · answered by lemonheads 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know it just that the mistake or a pleasure for the moment, u might not able to control urself bt always rem that ur bf will never ever like it, so my advice to u is dnt tell him, keep it to u bt it also depends on how ur relationship is going on, if u guys truly love each other and he dnt want to lose you than i m sure even if u tel him he might get angry for a moment however will get back to u bt dnt even take a chance, always rem everybdy makes mistakes in their life, accept that u made a mistake but promise to ur self that this mistake u will nt commit again and u can ask anybdy and ppl might give you too many advise bt my final advise would be do watever ur heart says to do, i m sure when u accepted ur bf's proposal it was ur heart's decision u might took an advise from others but ultimatley u did what u want, same in the case when u kissed his frnd , u might feel like doing and u did so it was ur heart who agrees to do that, ask this question to ur ownself , see the advantages n disadvnatge , what coud happen if u tell him n what if u dnt tell him, speak with ur own heart n soul and do watever they said, they means ur heart and soul, and i m sure they wont misguid you but for any further discussion u can mail me anytime, will always be there for u at find_aaeena@yahoo.com
2006-06-14 14:17:33 · answer #4 · answered by Aaeena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't tell her because of course your relathionship is going to end, but make sure the boyfriend won't say anything because it will be the most cruel thing on ending a relathionship betwen friends. well just try to keep away from your (best friend) and go away because if you did that she is not your best friend.
Best friends don't do that, so you just prove that by kissing his boyfriend. I'm sure you feel awful when you see them together and just knowing of what you did to your (best friend)!!.
2006-06-14 14:21:15 · answer #5 · answered by Tamara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling him will not accomplish anything, only ruin two relationships: yours and boyfriend's friendship. If you think the kiss was indicative of a serious problem in your relationship with your boyfriend, then you should address that without telling him. If it was just an accident, dismiss it as such and move on with your life.
2006-06-14 14:12:26 · answer #6 · answered by Guelph 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you expect this to be a regular thing, then perhaps you should break up with your boyfriend and pursue your other interest. You betrayed your boyfriends trust, as well as did his best friend. The two people he feels he can trust. NO, do not tell him.....this will be painful for him....you should break up with the poor guy though...don't play games with him. This was very cruel of you both!
2006-06-14 14:18:44 · answer #7 · answered by Pammie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u feel guilty ,do pls tell him.If u re feeling u didnt do anything wrong dont tell him.It will rouse nothing but disrespect and jealousy in him.He may not like to trust u .either way.U did as ur impusle let u do.Think of ur actions and consequences before doing anything.Dont appear a cheat and a cheap.
2006-06-14 14:55:42 · answer #8 · answered by aquarian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why on earth did you do that? Well if you tell him the relationship is over, but actually you ruined the relationship the second you kissed his best friend. So yeah, if you lie to him though that just makes you a liar....so your screwed either way.
2006-06-14 14:11:12 · answer #9 · answered by Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first think y u did that.... f u feel u its a mistake then tell him as soon as possible.... but find a good time to tell him... try 2 b honest and f he get mad u keep cool and tell his the reason.tell him how much u love him...tell him Ur very sad about what u did &very sorry ...promise him not 2 do that again...and next time don do that f u realy love him
2006-06-14 14:23:21 · answer #10 · answered by pink l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's tough, if you don't tell then his best friend ends up telling you'll end up looking really bad
you could tell your boyfriend but he may break up with you or not trust you again
To make things easier don't kiss anyone that is not your boyfriend
2006-06-14 14:12:05 · answer #11 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋