its horible,
2006-06-14 07:03:41 · 19 answers · asked by Bombshell 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Aww... this sounds awful. I would say that SmplySunning has the right idea - train you vaginal muscles to be stronger so you can squeeze yourself tighter in sex. Also better muscles = better blood supply = more sensation = fun fun fun!
Another thing which might be worth trying is having an orgasm before sex begins (using your hands, his hands, his tongue or whatever seems good), after a big wet orgasm you will begin to dry out for a while so that would be a good time to let his willy go inside.
And remember there's more to sex than ogasms - you shouldn't eel awful if you don't come every time you do it! Just enjoy what you have and hope things might get even better.
Have a great day!
2006-06-14 07:15:28 · answer #1 · answered by monkeymanelvis 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have a bird like you - it's the best bit about her!!!!
Try wiping occasionally (with tissues) every 20 minutes or so into the act - or use the sheets if a)they are clean enough and b)if they are not yours. That will get the friction back and then you can find something else to blame for your lack of orgasms.
2006-06-15 02:08:06 · answer #2 · answered by Johnny Baggs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a guy's perspective, I wouldn't honestly worry about it. In my experience, you're not unusual and for lot of men it can actually be a turn on.
You can still both have just as much fun, if you try being a bit creative with positions and the other things you do to each other in the bedroom.
2006-06-14 14:11:53 · answer #3 · answered by Scurvy C Dog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was your boyfriend and you got really wet i would think i was doing the right thing and pressing the right buttons, wet is good in a mans book, floods (Sorry) is even better, try a different position to get better stimulation of the G spot and cl it. Good luck.......
2006-06-20 16:30:37 · answer #4 · answered by spud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend is obsessed with how much moisture I can produce. I was always pretty self concious about it and had orgasm issues as well, but we used clitoral stimulation to get me to orgasm. Try that along with kegals and you'll be in business!
2006-06-14 14:12:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a turn off to a lot of men. You can work on other ways to have an orgasm
2006-06-14 14:08:25 · answer #6 · answered by geoff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
google search for "kegel" excercises, that will help your pelvic musculature.
too wet, too wet, not likely. Wet good, not horrible, not a turn off.
Sex is supposed to be fun, he should enjoy your wet slimy body.
2006-06-14 14:09:54 · answer #7 · answered by dockyortho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have an orgasm, I think you may have got yourself a little worked up about it, that's all.
As for being wet, that's what you should be, very wet.
I have just divorced my wife for YOU.
2006-06-14 14:11:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound as though you are very young and new to all the sex things...was same for me first time but it will become distant memory as you get older and less over excited...knowing your body more things settle down and you start to enjoy
2006-06-14 14:19:03 · answer #9 · answered by wonder woman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men would find very wet, very hot. Very wet means very turned on (by him of course).
2006-06-14 14:23:29 · answer #10 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋