If your spouse's grandmother told you she hated you and your child when you married into her family what would

Question

you do? If it's been years since the wedding. The woman was talking about the past but that would mean she hated a 6 year old child. Would you share the conversation with your spouse or let it go? Do you ever have to visit this woman again?

Answer 1

LET IT GO........................YOU MARRIED YOUR WIFE.... NOT HER GRANDMOTHER. YES I WOULD VISIT HER AGAIN FOR MY WIFE AS LONG AS YOUR CHILD WOULD NOT BE HURT OR MADE AWARE OF THIS HEARTLESS GRANDMOTHER'S FEELING TOWARD THE TWO OF YOU.
DON'T GET INTO IT WITH YOUR WIFE...THIS WILL MAKE HER FEEL SHE HAS TO CHOOSE BETWEEN HER HUSBAND AND THE CHILD SHE HAS ACCEPTED AS HER OWN AND DEAR 'OLE' GRANNY.

PRAY FOR GRANNY THAT THE THE LORD WILL GIVE HER A CHANGE OF HEART. BE NICE TO HER......REMEMBER......"YOU CATCH MORE FLIES WITH HONEY". (NOT THAT YOU WANT A BUNCH OF FLIES SWARMING AROUND , BUT YOU GET THE POINT.)

BE HAPPY WITH YOUR WIFE AND CHILD. THEY'RE THE ONES YOU LIVE WITH. YOU ONLY HAVE TO PUT UP WITH "HEARTLESS GRANNY" EVERY NOW AND THEN.

PRAY FOR STRENGTH AND ENDURANCE BEFORE YOU GO TO SEE HER. ASK GOD TO HELP YOU TO SEE HER THROUGH "HIS" EYES AND LOVE HER WITH "HIS" HEART.

GOOD LUCK WITH "HEARTLESS GRANNY".
(HOW COULD SHE BE SO CRUEL TO A CHILD)
I'LL PRAY FOR HER TOO.

YOU AND YOUR CHILD ARE IN MY PRAYERS.
GOD BLESS.

Answer 2

I would tell my spouse for sure! This woman seems to be holding ill feelings due to something that she has heard about you or maybe she is liking the girl before you better? Who knows, but there is no reason at all to keep your feelings from your mate. You two can then decide on the best action to take.