does anyone know how to edit pic with everything in background blury and not you?

Answer 1

If you have photoshop it's quite easy.

Open up Adobe Photoshop
Open up Image
Double Click on background layer - Click Ok
Using the lasso tool, create a selection around yourself
CTRL + J (puts you on a new layer)
Select Layer 0
Filters -> Blur -> Gaussion Blur (play with intensity)
Click Ok
Flatten Image
Yer Done

Granted, before you flatten the image, you may want to take a soft focus circular eraser to the layer that contains just you to keep from creating a harsh line around you. Carefully erase any background that you may have selected while using the lasso tool.

Answer 2

If you mean that you want to make everything except yourself blurry, Picasa is probably the easiest way to do it.
http://picasa.google.com/

Here's what it looks like:
http://picasa.google.com/features/features-edit.html
(Once you install the program,you'll find what you're looking for under the effects tab.)