alot of my friends say that i am really pretty but then y have i not had a serious relationship b4? im not fat but im not a twig either. im kida in between. should i go on a diet? should i get a makeover? do guys think its sexy for gurls to have some curves? i feel like a monster! i feel like i will never be loved and i am so longing for it. Plz help me.
2006-06-14 06:40:44 · 18 answers · asked by beachbabe 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
Hey i'm the same way and I'm like that for ME!who cares some guys r going to like me and some aren't.I learned to live with that.I don't want to be over weight and unhealthy,but I'm still going to eat!Someone will come along gurl!be patient!plenty of guys like curves!
2006-06-14 06:44:38 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Mariah™ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Instead of waiting for guys to make the first move, why not ask out someone who you are interested in? You'll be amazed how seldom that happens. Both men and women have assigned the role of initiating contact, in regard to dating, to the guys.
Chances are, most men will say yes, regardless of how thick u think u are. We are simple creatures.
Good luck!
2006-06-14 13:48:46 · answer #2 · answered by rd4yp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. you need to look in the mirror and love what you see. If you love yourself then it will be easier for someone else to love you. I find that guy love curves, Jessica Alba she has an awesome body. She's curvy and the guys go ga-ga over her. So don't stress it. your price charming will arrive when you least expect it.
2006-06-14 13:49:06 · answer #3 · answered by ~Genie~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares? i'm just like you, body wise. but if you try to find someone who would like you for your body, you'll never find someone who likes you for who you are. i know that sounds cheesy but its true. i mean, you sound kinda worried now, you dont want to be like that for the months that your relationship would last. just hold out for the right person, dont freak and try to rush yourself. enjoy the single life, while you can, before you bloom into a beautiful lady and all the guys cant stay away from you! :-)
2006-06-14 13:45:29 · answer #4 · answered by twim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dont change who you are. When your ready to find someone then you will know. When a guy looks at you and wants a serious relationship, then there ready. DONT CHANGE! When you find someone and they like you back. You'll be happy you didn't change.
2006-06-14 13:46:32 · answer #5 · answered by Chelsea S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know, why dont you put a pic on here so we can see. You should also know that looks are 100% of everything, even for teenage boys. No one wants to go out with someone stupid, boring, or ugly on the inside or out, no matter how good looking they are.
2006-06-14 13:44:13 · answer #6 · answered by thale138 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever seen the movie Sleepover?
If you have then its like the question
"Do you prefer brownies or carrots?"
If you answer brownies it just means you need to find someone who loves brownies. Or the opposite.
2006-06-14 13:46:32 · answer #7 · answered by D-ster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy, I'd say relax and be yourself. I married my wife because she was smart, and had a great sense of humor. She's not a super model but she's mine and that's all that counts.
2006-06-14 13:46:07 · answer #8 · answered by r0b_a11en 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, stop looking at women's magazines. Being loved has nothing to do with looks. Our society seems to get those two issues confused.
2006-06-14 13:44:29 · answer #9 · answered by jazzwilson2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your physical appearance shouldn't be changed to try and get anybodies attention. maybe you just need to act more confident in yourself, speak up a bit more. also, dont wait for a guy o make the first move. introduce yourself to him (or her).
2006-06-14 13:45:45 · answer #10 · answered by twist_of_fate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋